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  1. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    So, here is the scenario...

    Went out with some OT friends last night and got a ride from a good friend to Seattle to hang out and grab a couple of drinks... Then went out to eat and then to drop off another friend home before we headed back out to for him to drop me off. Got home at 4:30 am.

    Would you say, what? Really, you can't be joking, you are just now getting home? Why did you bother? This is ridiculous and your going out priv's are revoked.
     
  2. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    He knew I was going to not get home until about 3ish anyways.
     
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    4:30 is not 3ish. I would not be feeling good about that situation.
     
  4. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    I didn't want to call and wake him up though.
     
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    speaking from personal experience, id rather get the wake up call :o


    but how serious is your relationship
     
  6. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    we have been together for 5 years. i usually call if there is some type of problem and had my phone in front of me the whole night.
     
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    Curious, if the roles were reversed, then what?
     
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    ive always been under this mindset
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't mind as long as he made it home safe. If it was in the beginning of the relationship, I would have not been thrilled but it has been 5 years.
     
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    yeah, but he is very fatherly and does this shit all the time. So, I figured that I was safe and ok and that is what mattered.
     
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    I've found that no matter who I'm living with, I always contact them if I'm running late or I'm not coming home. They're there to look out for me.
     
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    honestly, every girl who has ever given me that excuse has been dumped
     
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    Common courtesy.
     
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    Sorry but I would be pissed if you didn't call unless......

    this particular friend is one of those "*hour/hour and a half people" and he knows that 3am normally means sometime between 3am & 7am.

    Then I'd just be a little annoyed that you didn't call to let me know you were late as usual.




    *you know who I mean. That one friend who comes over and they say they will be gone an hour-hour and half and then show up like 10 hours later....
     
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    not always. part of me didn't want to get the whole lecture on the phone around ppl either.
     
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    you say that because that's how you wanted him to react. it's the whole, "well if i react this way, so should he". more than likely, you would've been upset too if the roles were reversed.

    a quick text would of been the courteous thing to do. we're not talking about 10-15 mins here.

    hey, on the bright side, after 5 years he hasn't said "fuck it" yet.
     
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    I'm having a hard time imagining what excuse would make an unexpected 4:30 a.m. arrival okay with me.
     
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    :werd: My gf always says shit like this, but the truth is, she knows I'd never put her in a situation like that- because I know if I did, I'd be facing a firing squad.
     
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    i guess no matter how i put it - i was in the wrong. i know that i am going to get reemed for it later. I understand the common courtesy and concern but I just didn't think that what flew out his mouth was cool either.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: I guess you and I are in the minority jojo! My SO has done the same thing numerous times and I could care less. I've woken up the next morning and said "what time did you get home?" only to have him tell me an hour later than he originally planned and I just laughed and asked what he did. Same thing goes if it were me, I know for a fact he'd lose 0 sleep over me not calling or texting my eta.

    However, I guess the point is you know your bf is protective of you and cares about those things so you should have given him some sort of message that you were getting home later than expeced.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well he certainly could have handled the situation better, but in my experience, if you act like a kid, people tend to treat you like one.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Although on second thought, "revoking" your going out "priviledges" is a little too controlling even for me. :mamoru:
     
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    The world is becoming an exceedingly scarier place. I just want to know that he isn't dead in a ditch somewhere.....
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    What BS. I really don't understand, at all, the rationale behind this.

    I can't even make a coherent argument because I am so in the dark about what the problem is. You went out with your friends... whatever. Why would your so be mad unless you were somehow messing up his plans/schedule?
     

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