FRK Attention: Newbies, Retards, FSer's, and anyone who wanders into this forum.

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Demon Of Dreams, Oct 21, 2004.

  1. Demon Of Dreams

    Demon Of Dreams Feed me with lies and hate, and from that, I will

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    As a mod, I'm getting tired of the newbies (04's and 03's) who come in here just to look at picture threads, making requests, and generally just making things a pain in the ass for everyone. I'm also getting tired of the folks who've been here awhile who do not adhere to the little rules we try to put up to make this place a bit more appealing for those we've managed to keep here, and who've stuck around through all the bullshit and otherwise.



    Having said that, until further notice I'm removing current picture threads, and will be locking picture threads that pop up afterwards until this thread here has run it's course.

    I want people's input, I don't want arguements, I don't want whining. I want everyone, new and old, to comment on what I am doing. This is NOT A FUCKING PICTURE REQUEST FORUM. I'm tired of people thinking it is such.

    Go to hotties or the vaginarium if you want to request pictures of people. People post here at their leisure and enjoy posting their pictures, they don't need to be badgered in threads, or PMs/IM's either for that matter, to post more pictures.

    If somebody says they're taking requests, fine, make requests.
    Otherwise, keep your fucking fingers from typing "MORE!?" and other random crap to ask for more pictures.

    The Moderators for the most part are tired of dealing with it.
    If you support this.
    Post.

    If you don't.
    Post.
    Or fuck off.

    To be completely honest, if you really have a problem with it, express why you have a problem with it.
    The no picture request rule has been in place for some time, and if you're too daft to read the stickies, then simply stay the hell out of threads or refrain from commenting if you do decide to read a thread.

    Along with the picture requests, I am also asking that negative comments also be kept to ones self. Meaning if you harass someone in a thread about a picture, PM them, or IM them, you probably won't be around too much longer for us to worry about. However, people still make the negative comments in picture threads. Knock it the fuck off.

    We're here to keep the peace, and a lot of people just try to be rebels and act out against a moderators wishes.

    So, feel free in this thread to tell me to fuck off, tell me I'm crazy, etc etc etc. Get it off your chest.

    But for the time being, I'm removing any content outside of this thread that pertains to anything I've mentioned above.

    Good Day
    Resident Asshole Moderator.
    ~Demon
     
  2. Chalkitup

    Chalkitup New Member

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    G'day Demon, newb here :wavey:

    First just let me say that Im not the type to come into a thread and nag for pics and I have contributed to one of the pics thread myself. That's just to give you some perspective about where Im coming from, take it for what you will.

    Now I appreciate the fact that I'm a newb over here and I haven't seen a lot of the goings on and in particular what you, the moderators have to go through but I do moderate on another forum so I can understand that it can be very frustrating.

    In saying that in the small amount of time that I have been here I've seen a few criticism posts that were chastised by mods and rightly so, but IMHO the response by mods to pic requests is making a mountain out of a molehill. If some ass comes in trolling for porn in every pic thread and doesn't contribute then that's a different kettle of fish but I dont think I've really seen any of that but yet I've seen a few cases where mods were telling someone to FUCK OFF for prompting someone to post a pic either sarcastically or as encouragement. I've been asked (only once:wtc: ) for pics since I've been here and I was quite flattered especially when the person in question complimented them. In my case I was discussing a body mod (here and in the body mod forum) and I could appreciate that the person was interested in seeing it, perhaps this is a different context than other cases, :shrug:

    So I guess that my point, or even question is, do you or any of the FSers think that there is an over-reaction to pic requests? Do any of you get offended by a one off request? Remember Im not talking about nagging here, just a "pics please:x: " type post.

    I was actually thinking about starting a poll but being a youngin' I thought that it wasn't my place to come in here and make such a statement but since you asked in this thread I thought that it was a nice opp. Looking forward to hearing the response so that I can get a better understanding ;)
     
  3. Demon Of Dreams

    Demon Of Dreams Feed me with lies and hate, and from that, I will

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    that response is usually from me... people should know better by now and it gets old telling the same sod's the same damn thing in every thread

    if someone compliments you and asks privately, that's fine. but if someone badgers a person for more pictures it's different.

    I don't think there is an over-reaction because quite honestly, the rules have been posted. People choose to post their pictures to contribute. Not to be harassed or otherwise. People who ask for more pictures, in my opinion, should not do so in this forum. Anyone who wants to post more will ask for requests or post more at their own free will. Not because anyone else asks them to. Starting a pics thread is just a suggestion from those of us who've been here awhile. We start them with the intention, and clearly state, that no pic requests are allowed unless a member gives express permission and says they will do requests.

    This rule was put in place to keep everyone in this forum feeling like this forum is theirs to play about in. A lot of members, newer, older, and in the middle, do not care for picture requests because it's more of a violation of their privacy and will actually stop people from sharing what little they do. Of course, there are a few people who share quite a bit, some who don't share at all, and some who are just getting into sharing.

    We don't want to scare new people off who would like to make this forum a part of their daily browsing of OT, or more to the point, new people who think this forum is a good idea and would like to contribute but are too afraid to because people are judging and just dashing about making picture requests here and there.

    as Moderators, we don't tolerate it because we don't feel the members here should have to tolerate it. Many of the members have expressed their opinions of this in the past.

    Plus, it's quite annoying.

     
  4. Chalkitup

    Chalkitup New Member

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    Nps thanks for the reply. Like I said I've only been here a lil' while so I guess that Im not sick of the requests yet. Perhaps you're using extremes to make your point and that's fine as long as you understand my point isn't referring to those who are "badgering", of course they should be chastised and I think I was pretty clear that wasn't what I was getting at.

    I've just seen some cases where I thought that the mod (not you but that's irrelavent) went way overboard and part of me thought shit these mods must be getting caned with trolls but then I thought, well why should that mean that FSers are abused for making a joke or politely asking for a look.

    Could you explain to me what you mean by someone's request being an invasion of one's privacy?

    While I think that I understand where you're coming from demon, as a newb I suppose that I've taken a different viewpoint, case in point, I wouldn't have posted my pic only that it was politely requested by someone that I'd noticed around the place. As far as new people being scared off by requests, what about scaring them off with the feeling of hostility? By scolding every poster that touches on the rules I suppose that it sets an example but it also gives the impression that FS is a utopia policed by the SS.

    Anyway, give it a little while and I'm sure I'll be sending you PMs asking you to piss the trolls off, I understand its not easy to maintain such an environment that pleases everyone, I suppose I was just a little put off by the hostility ;)
     
  5. darkrick

    darkrick New Member

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    Well, you're not an arsehole moderator, that's for sure. I've met people a lot worse who carry the power to ban, that's scary. I'd get pissed off this this level of shit aswell.

    Anyhow, if someone wants a picture request forum.. they should open google and use the image search, or try a peer2peer client and use that.

    Furthermore, my view of Freakyshiat is just a step up from vaginarium. Advanced sex forum, which, imo, is a place to discuss things more risque than what happens in vaginarium. It can't be THAT hard to learn that people post in this section because they want to, not to make other people happy, and such.

    :dunno:

    Basically, I agree with DoD :wavey:
     
  6. 12xalt

    12xalt petrolsexual

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    there is much that you don't see because many times one of us gets to it first and deletes the post before you ever get to see it

    I personally am sick of the requests and most of the time I just click "edit" then "delete" then move on

    the thing is, this isn't the main forum, we have some strict rules here and we expect them to be followed, once you start letting things slip a little here and a little there it becomes difficult to request that people adhere to the rules, after all "you let so and so do it why can't I"

    as for overreacting, nope, I think we are simply trying to do our jobs and express to those who come here that this is an advanced forum, with rules, with mods who do uphold them, with people who want structure and if they aren't mature enough to follow those rules thoroughly then they aren't mature enough to be here
     
  7. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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    do what ya need to do man, ive seen so much bullshit in here over the last few weeks that i rarely even come in here anymore.


    and its not even just FS...its alot of the sub-forums...people bringing shit from there to the main forum..just to fuck with someone ( ie. all the bullshit jennipher drama )

    I say bans for all who do this shit. i can remember 2 or 3 threads over the past week or so in here that were started by people...AS A JOKE.


    and i dont understand why people come here just too see pics. thats why there is a hotties forum...and i dont even go in there
     
  8. xenthyl

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    WEll I totally agree with you doggy. We don't need ass goblins asking for pics and shit. I think if you do.. Someone should shake up a pepsi 20 oz bottle put it in their butt and open it. Just my opinion. :nono:
     
  9. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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  10. i personally dont care what someone who is not into what i am has to say. all i care about is what my SO thinks and says about what has been done is or going to be done. quoting myself from that thread:



    i use to whore this forum when it first came about now i lurk more than anything. it really sucks because i have met some awesome people on this site and i am to the point to where i rarely check it anymore.

    its a shame it has to come to this.
     
  11. mkevaldz

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    I'm new, not here for pics, just trying to help people where I can and bring my own brand of humor to the forums, I don't believe anything I"ve done so far is out of the perameters, if so, let me know =)

    I don't have a problem with pics being removed, that's not what I like about this forum, and if I wanted porn, I'd get it elsewhere anyways.
     
  12. Quicksilver

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    I fully and absolutely support the mods/admin in this effort to "weed" out the idiots that currently plague the FS area. I'm a new guy, and I don't post much, but I do know the rules and stay within them when posting...
     
  13. contactone

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    Just a question, but why do the mods only delete the bad post? I mean if you want to make a statement you would ban these fools. It's such a shame too, cause to Me the hottest women of OT post in FS, and I don't want them scared away.:hs:
     
  14. 12xalt

    12xalt petrolsexual

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    posting a pic is not expressing why you have an issue, it's simply whoring up the thread
     
  15. Demon Of Dreams

    Demon Of Dreams Feed me with lies and hate, and from that, I will

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    hey if people want to call me a nazi, that's fine... :o


    this isn't something I just did on a whim... it's something I did because there needs to be more order in this forum. Pixie and others get ignored because they're too wishywashy with their words and just ask nicely... It's time the moderators don't get ignored anymore.

    I don't want to take the fun out of this forum by any means. Pictures are great fun and we sincerely appreciate anyone who has shared over the years. However, this forum has also gone downhill as of late and has started just to pick up again, but most of it was because of picture threads, and I don't think that's the way to do things. We're aiming for more discussions, personal experiences, fantasies, things like that. We're not looking for a bunch of people saying "hay, anyone have pics of so and so?" or "hay, who's had an orgasm" or lame shit like that.

    Good Example:
    "What is one fantasy you've never shared with your SO?"

    Bad Example:
    "I'm from NC and I'm looking for a threesome, anyone have this fantasy?"


    This has been another Good Example/Bad Example
    [/animaniacs]
    :o


    Anyway, the point is, all of us want this forum to stay around, and all of us want to see this forum grow.
    We DON'T want to see a bunch of children scaring off legit members because they keep requesting pictures or posting things that are obviously childish. A lot of people lurk because they're ashamed to post pictures or are afraid something will get leaked into the main forum, or won't post because people around here have been getting fairly negative with their replies (as far as looks, whats gross, etc) ...


    What this forum needs is a good ole' fisting.

    and I'm here to start it off :)
     
  16. Natas

    Natas O&A Party Rock

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    What I can't beleive, is the amount of deleted threads we have. Just to let everyone know, as a mod, we see deleted threads. The 1st page has over 5. I can't imagine why people can't understand the rules, not request pics, no spam, spam porn, etc...

    We have the Vag = talk about sex stuff, first orgasm, how to jerk off, etc...
    We have Hotties = trade porn, see porn, etc...

    Those are two forums I move tons of shit. Let's make this the place is was last year. There were great posts of freakyshiat, and that's the reason we are here.

    I know I'd love to see this place became and avatar only forum, like hotties, no offense to the non-avatar posting people that post good shit, but the most threads that are deleted, are people with no avs.
     
  17. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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    that would work...only problem is that there are some n00bs that ARE worth a shit.

    see maybe its just me...but when i used to be a supermod...i wasnt nice..i wouldnt just lock threads that were BS or out of place...they were deleted. Yeah maybe i wasnt liked that much by the assholes..but i didnt give a fuck..

    i think you guys are too nice...well everyone except for DoD...but he's an asshole in a good way
     
  18. 12xalt

    12xalt petrolsexual

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    DoD isn't the only one who locks threads and deletes things

    the rest of us do it too, we just don't always announce it

    Demon kinda comes and goes in f/s and when he's here, he makes a big splash, the rest of us just kind of plod along each day and do little small things that people don't seem to notice :hs:
     
  19. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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    well i know this...i was just saying that he makes it known that hes doing it...either way its a good thing
     
  20. jellybeans95

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    I know some noobs make idiot posts, but I'd rather it not have to come to av only forum. I've been here since the begining of '03, and just kinda lurked and all. I'm getting into the freaky more and more everyday. I enjoy reading the posts. I've never requested pics tho. That's the sort of shit you expect in the Vag (which gets terribly annoying) or the main forum...not here, where we are supposed to be more adult. I fully support what the mods are doing.

    I personally get a lil' irked at the nasty comments....even if this is "just the internet"...it doesn't make a person feel all happy-sappy to be told they are flat, ugly, fat, butter faced, hairy, disfigured, etc.
     
  21. nosaj

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    oh my the thread title made me :mamoru: I am glad DOD is gonna crack the whip.
     
  22. Digit

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    I just like to read posts...Provide me with what you will, I wont take the energy to request anything...But, please do listen to the MODs, they know what they are talking about and what is best for the forum as a whole...
     
  23. Acesn8s

    Acesn8s The Deadman's Hand

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    I think I support this harsher atmosphere. FS is an adult sub-forum, so if you trod on the rules the penalties need to be harsher than on the main OT forum.
     
  24. hondaman

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    i have to say, being a noob in this forum is alot easier than in say... the ot forum. there is no crap, and i like it. ihave been a frequenter here in the fs forum for about 3 years, but have had a few different sign in names due to periods with no internet access.

    having said that... this place has turned to shit in the last little while.

    i don't care if people post pics or not, and asking for it is stupid. i know it never can be, but i wish it was a little more warm and fuzzy in here, like it used to be.

    i enjoy coming on here, reading posts from other people about things that are interesting, and very educational(yes, educational). there is no teaching of freakyshiat in school, and the only to learn about the various things and people's views and twists on them is to read and learn in a public forum. it would be a shame to lose this place, i kinda like it here. nothing is normal, and neither am i, so i guess i can fit in here.

    i'll stop babbling now.
     
  25. CarterInsomniac1

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    Please don't go the no-av route, not all the newbs are n00bs :sadwavey:


    I like lurking/occasionally posting here, it's always interesting to read about new perspectives on things, and I'd hate for all us no-avs to be B& from here on accounta some people don't know when to STFU.:sad2:
     

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