Asking Women for Advice About Women

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  1. Swipe

    Swipe New Member

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    Am I the only one who thinks that it's fucking useless? I'm not saying that women don't know what they want... err wait... that's exactly what I'm saying. Every time I've ever asked a woman for advice about a romantic situation it never pans out. I've narrowed it down to two options:

    1.) They give romanticized advice that sounds good, but isn't practical.

    2.) They give advice as to what they think they want which isn't the same for each person.

    Is it possible that men know women better than women know women?
     
  2. poz

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    I like having a few good women friends that I can ask for advice from. :dunno:
     
  3. Swipe

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    How often does that advice work out though? Maybe all my female friends are defective.
     
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    Same experience here. The advice is wholly useless.
     
  5. THoC

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    im trying to think if ive ever even asked a female for dating advice......... dont think i have.
     
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  7. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    I usually only ask my female friends for
    dating advice :dunno:

    Most of my guy friends are useless with women and have worst game than I do.
     
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    I've pretty much learned that whatever a woman wants, she only wants from a guy who she is romantically/emotionally involved with.

    Take online dating for example: usually you can post your "first date" ideas on your profile page. After talking with a some different girls that lead to a first date, I suggested we do exactly what they had posted. I've been turned down like 90% of the time.

    Another example, my mom used to always say that making dinner for a chick will get her panties moist (I'm paraphrasing here). Everytime I try that or suggest "Hey why don't you come over and I'll make us dinner?" I usually get the response, "Nah, lets just go out." I guess they think I'm trying to sleep with them :dunno:

    Of course, my mom has always said that women never know what they want, and even if they have it they don't know what to do with it.
     
  9. john law

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    Ha ha I remember back in the day when I used to think it was a good idea to be friends with girls, and ask them for girl advice. I've learned quite a bit since then.

    What girls say they want, and what they actually want, are two vastly different things. Hell, they are worlds apart.

    Be a man, go with your gut, roll the dice and go for it.
     
  10. antihero

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    no shit.

    you can talk to women to understand better what women think, whats important to them, etc etc...

    asking them what you should do and then just doing it it the height of stupidity.

    the vast majority of women are confused and internally dishonest to some degree, especially when it comes to men. There is just too much dissonance between reality and what they have been led to believe is virtue. They come up with crazy shit trying to reconcile the two.
     
  11. THoC

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    lmao .... sad but mostly true.
     
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    Asking women for dating advice triggers the logical areas of their brains... but it's not their logical areas that trigger attraction for certain guys.
     
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    ^^^ exactly. logic plays very little part in real life situations for most women; only when forming advice for others.
     
  14. THoC

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    the girls are staying away from this thread like AIDS.
     
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    No, they're just saving up their comments for a combined assault. up, up, down, down, left, left, a, b, b

    Don't get me wrong: I've received good advice from women, but it's usually from women who are detached from the situation and don't know the full story. Then, I'm able to adapt and apply their input to my own actions.
     
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    They may be useful for ongoing relationships but not for attracting women.
     
  17. Falconer

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    As has been stated, women give advice based on what they think they want which is different from what they actually respond well to.
     
  18. Falconer

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    john E law is right as usual
     
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    My ex girlfriends dad always used to say: "When you finally think you have a woman figured out, they always change the game"

    Truest statement ever, because they have no IDEA what they want
     
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    the girl I'm dating right now wants her g-spot poked and prodded and that's about the only thing that's for sure lol
     
  22. 04JETTA

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    I think you should ask advice from both :dunno:
     
  23. john law

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    do you mean both men and women?

    if so, excellent post, sir
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I purposefully give the wrong advice to teach a lesson.
     
  25. Falconer

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    Beer troll post?
     

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