Okay, this is hypothetical... I frequent this bar, and all of the female 'tenders are rather cute. So, I'm sitting there with friends this weekend and one of them points out this female 'tender is giving me "the look." Well, first of all, I don't know what the fuck "the look" is, so naturally I wouldn't recognize it if I saw it. Secondly, I'm buzzing hard, getting drunk, to the point where my text messages aren't coherent. Third, I'm sure I'm not the only drunk asshole to hit on this cute girl. I hear her making comments about a book I've read, and I'm thinking "Well, this is a great opportunity...I'll say something when I order another beer"...but I never do. Not because I'm shy, I don't remember why I didn't. Anyway, I'm assuming female bartenders get hit on ALL THE TIME. How would you go about setting yourself apart?