asking for a phone number over AIM?

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  1. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    bad or good?

    its a girl i had a class with last semester... we talk online every once in a while... i was thinking of asking her number later in the summer so that when we get back to school, i could call her and ask her out or something :dunno:
     
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    ive done it, i dont really see the harm if you d ont see her in person often because i mean how else would you get it if you dont see her?

    ima just say go for it :p
     
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    k :hs:

    i should probably ask her if she is dating someone first :o

    girls who say theyre married to girls on facebook suck :mad:
     
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    signed off without saying bye :squint:
     
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    I would say don't go for it, but that's me. People say I have a better personality online than I do in person. Probably because once i get nervous in person ill say something stupid.
     
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    i ask for a girls phone number who's 18 and met on myspace... she gave it to me..

    i talk to her occasionally, but thats about it....

    too young, too much drama and potential drama
     
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    thats fascinating.

    Please tell me more about this story that has nothing to do with my thread.
     
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    in that situation it should be fine. i'd ask for it
     
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    I've done it before. Better than sitting behind a keyboard as your only way of talking to her saying to yourself, "What if?"
     
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    Your a pussy for not just asking her for the number, regardless of the reason.

    :dunno:

    worst she can say is no....
     
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    i never said i wasnt going to do it. ill do it closer to the end of the summer, so that i actually can call her and make plans.
     
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    get it now.. you'll regret it later.... should she suddenly get a boyfriend.

    :)
     
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    dont make such a big deal outta it? :confused:

    ive done it plenty of times. although in my circumstances its someone from my classes or something and we either happen to just be bsing online, or have plans for later that evening so i gotta make sure to get their number then and there.

    axing a girl for her number really isnt a big deal when its someone youve already broken the barrier with.
     
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    1. Get phone number
    2. Call girl
    3. Ask her out on date

    The longer you wait to ask her out, the less likely you will succeed.
     
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    well, whats the point in getting it now? i cant call her to make plans for another 2 months or so.
     
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    The point is to call her and ask her on a date. I see it's a long time off, but is she in town or something? Can you meet up with her?

    Otherwise, ignore her for now, next time you see her ask for it in person. ;)
     
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    she sint in town. she lives in RI, I live in CO, we both go to school in MA.

    I dont know when I will see her in person, if at all, hence the online stuff.
     
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    Got it.

    I'd just drop it for now. Next time you see her in person, give her shit for not writing you (or calling you, or hanging out with you, or coming to your party - get it? ;) ) and then say "Damn, you better give me your number so we can go out." so she gets a clue.

    And in the mean time, just relax, go be yourself. Stop worrying about this right now, it's a non-issue.
     
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    eh... im not worry about it. I am worrying about something else, but thats besides the point. I won't see her in person. We won't have any classes together, live in different dorms on opposite ends of campus, etc.

    Ill just ask her a few days before I get back to Boston and call her a few days after that. We have been talking about hockey a bit lately, and she seemed fairly interested when i said "we should go to some games sometiime"
     

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