Are you honest with your SO when it comes to how many people you've slept with?

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  1. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    If you're not, is it because you're ashamed or because you think he or she might be disgusted?
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well considering I'm an honest person, yes.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If he asked me I'd be honest :dunno: I have nothing to hide.
     
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    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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  5. Alaya

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    was honest :dunno:
     
  6. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Honest, although hearing it from a girl your 'serious' with hurts, and I never think a girl tells the 'truth'
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    always been honest, and would prefer an honest response back, no matter what their number might be
     
  8. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    He's never asked, but if he did I'd tell him the truth. :dunno:
     
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    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Fuck no. They would ask when the other girls were, and they wouldnt be happy when I told them it was while we were dating.
     
  10. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    :rofl: :h5:
     
  11. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I do not believe it is a question you should ask. Its pretty much a nice way of saying "Hey, were you a slut by any chance?".

    Seriously, don't you think twice when the person says they started having sex at age 18, have been with over 37 different partners and they just turned 20?

    So far I have never asked, but they feel the need to tell me.
     
  12. Pringles

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    yes and no. I would tell them how many I remember that I cared about. Or passionate sex as opposed to sex for the act of it. I remember have sex with my past two ex gf's. The one night stands and how far I went with said girl I really don't remember or care.
     
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    I WOULD be honest if she asked, but she hasn't... and neither have I :dunno: All I know is that she always had safe sex and that's all that really matters to me.
     
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    :werd: seems like the menz don't really want to know.
     
  15. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I always talk about this at the beginning of a relationship. Hell, I thought it was normal to talk about past sexual experiences when you're getting to know someone. I mean I don't want my SO to give me detailed accounts of particular instances and how it felt, but I like to know how many, with who, what crazy shit they've done, what they like, what they don't like, what they haven't done that they'd like to, etc. :dunno:
     
  16. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Right?! Which kinda seems funny to me really. But hey, if you don't want to know, I'm not going to force the issue :mamoru:
     
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    I honestly can't remember
    The sad part is that it's not that many. The number could be counted on one hand
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Meh. So what :dunno: It's not a contest to see how many people you can fuck...



    ... or is it :noes:
     
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    New thread maybe?

    How many people have the people in VAG slept with?
     
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    It seems like with men it's a contest of how many and with women a contest of how few, huh? :)
     
  21. Dahlia

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    I had an ex, that whenever the "numbers" talk got brought up, his number would rise each time, as there were girls he "forgot" about. :rolleyes:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Men feel as women look at it as an insecurity, from the ladies ive talked to about it. Where as men obviously think its a bragging right, until the the SO asks about it.
     
  23. Dahlia

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    Well. It was the fact that he lied, and then forgot he lied to me about it, and then messed up. But. I found it hilarious because all the girls were SOOOO disgusting.

    We were driving one day, and pulling into a shopping center. A girl pulled out at the same time, I was like "Hey! I went to school with her. Shes kinda nuts!" (and fat and bleh) and he got all red and agitated, and I cracked up because that must have been yet ANOTHER girl he had been with.

    Needless to say, that relationship did not last long.
     
  24. radfad88

    radfad88 The Batman-O-Lantern

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    oh god this was such a clusterfuck for my last relationship... his number was IMO very low (like 3 including me) and mine was sightly higher (not much really). This topic brought out so much insecurities in him and little jabs at me whenever we'd get into a fight it was immature and got old fast. :squint:

    With the guy I'm seeing now we talked about it and agreed that it didn't matter as long as we both knew we were STD free and currently only sleeping with each other.:wiggle:
     
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    Rad, i thought you were a man:mamoru:
     

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