Are you happy?

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  1. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    This is a question that throws off a lot of people.

    So answer me, with your first reaction to my question. Are you happy? Truely and genuinly happy? I read so many posts about people in great relationships, or happy being single. Like Red v. Blue are you genuinly happy about every aspect of your life? Chica and Buddies (your are my influence, and strikingly similar) are you happy being you? Squirrel Master are you happy? I want to hear from noobs (like me) and the regulars.

    Evaluate your lilfe for me if you will, with the combination of ALL things (job/school/relationship/family/finances/etc) ARE YOU HAPPY?

    When you wake up in the morning are you ready to take on the day. And why? Is it just because of your SO, or does it run deeper than that?

    I am just curious, kind of a poll. But no real votes to make.
     
  2. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    Relationship = No
    Family = Yes
    School = Yes
    Finances = So-So

    I'm mostly happy but i do have my moments where i'm not.
     
  3. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    Job = I've made my hobby into a career so I'm pretty happy with that.
    School = Still undecided about what I want to do.
    Relationship = It's fine now but I'm going to be single in a month and I'd like to stay that way for awhile.
    Family = It's a wreck. They destroyed themselves and I don't know if I can reach them.
    Finances = It's fine right now but won't hold me forever. I need to be successful in my new career or else I'll have to take on another job.

    You forgot about health, which is my main source of frustration. If I had my health I'd be unstoppable, but it's like every year something new develops and this has got to be the worst of them all. :hs:
     
  4. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    Work=not happy
    Being deployed in iraq for over a year=not happy
    Finance=happy
    Relationship=happy, if not frustrating at times.

    Right now for me, happiness, or more so my entire life as a whole is just on 'pause'. Relationship with the woman im going to marry, yea, pretty much frozen until i can get back to the states.

    No one enjoys being here, so generally OVERALL, despite having a great girl, i'd say no. I'm not happy. This deployment overshaddows all of that saddly. :hs:
     
  5. Original

    Original OT Supporter

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    Family - Happy
    Relationship - Single / Not too happy
    Finances - Happy now, but I won't be a few months
    Friends - Happy
    School - Happy
    Fitness - So-so, working on become happy :o
    :wiggle:
     
  6. Big Red

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    well i am married to someone who is deployed to Taji, and i have gotten to the point where i am kinda glad he is gone. adn i dont know how im going to react to him actually being home when he does come home. i know he drove me crazy while he was home for his 2 weeks.
     
  7. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    Taji is like two hours north of me. i know of it.

    your story isnt that uncommon from military wives actually. sorry. :hs:
     
  8. StopDrop&LOL

    StopDrop&LOL "Where The Elite Become Champions"

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    Can there be an in between?
     
  9. Female

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    Job- I have none. So happiness comes automatically
    School- I'm in high school, how much more happy can I be? heh heh heh
    Relationship- Very happy, more happy then I deserve to be
    Family- Happy
    Finances- Sort of happy with but then again I'm a big spender
    Fitness- =/
     
  10. Female

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    now the question is... are YOU happy?
     
  11. nissanpower

    nissanpower I :heart: PeyPey

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    Hell yes. I work for my dream company, have a great house, wife, and kids. Money is good, and everyone is healthy. I have very little to complain about.
     
  12. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    I'm in the middle, I'm happy with some things, and not with others but I don't let it worry me too much. So I'm still generally in a 'happy' mood, but like Aluyminyum it depends a lot on my current health.
     
  13. themacstallion

    themacstallion The electric sheep are dreaming up your fate

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    I am overall happy, some things i don't like but i don't let them get me down.
     
  14. RockChick

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    Family - could be better
    Relationship - yes, very happy
    Finances - see relationship :big grin:
    Friends - no real friends, so indeed i am happy
    School - done with it for 2 years.... very happy
    Job - not happy, cos no job
    Fitness - could be better
     
  15. low20

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    relationship-happy 90% of the time 10% just agrivated at situations but still happy that im in the relationship

    friends-100% happy...i have the greatest friends, and the most fun
     
  16. prodigy33

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    Family: blah could be lots better
    Relationship: given that he is in iraq im extrememly happy
    Finances: could be better but workin to get it that way
    Friends: happy except for the fact they arent here with me on a daily basis
    School: will be happier once im done!
    Job: will be better once its a career and not a job
    Fitness: was happy
    Thank goodness for my friends and my SO!
     
  17. xoolinzyoox

    xoolinzyoox New Member

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    my gut responce to everything...meh, i have alot of boundries.
     
  18. tehexile

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    Im very happy. No reason to not be "happy"
     
  20. ProneToEpisodes

    ProneToEpisodes New Member

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    Why are you unhappy?
     
  21. Bleed

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    job - love it
    school - i got accepted to law school, but i deferred a year to keep working a little and save up money
    relationship - meh :o
    family - amazing
    finances - i'm not poor, i can buy what i want and live comfortably
     
  22. tehexile

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    my job sucks, i just quit it
    my grades suck, i cant concentrate enough on it
    my relationships suck, i cant seem to find anyone, and the one person i had broke my heart
    my family sucks, because they try to 'help' and they just end up making it worse
    my finances suck, because i dont have a job anymore
     
  23. Family - Getting better
    Relationship - Married for almost 2 months ....hard at times, but mostly happy.
    Finances - Not happy right now, but I start a new job August 8th
    Friends - Haven't seen in a while
    School - Not attending
    Fitness - Need to work on BAD
     
  24. JohnDoe

    JohnDoe Guest

    i can honestly say no to each and everyone of those. Is it time to shoot myself?
     
  25. scaryice

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    No to every one. I can't shoot myself, I care too much about sports and politics.
     

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