Cliffs: - In every relationship, one person is a "reacher" (a person who dates out of their league) and the other person is a "settler" (a person who settles). - The "settler" doesn't gets jealous (For those of you who don't watch the show, Lily and Marshall are married. The example was that a hot lawyer chick was hitting on Marshall at work, but Lily didn't get jealous because Lily is the settler, which makes Marshal the reacher. Later on, the hot lawyer kissed Marshall, and Marshall felt bad and told Lily, and she didn't even believe him; she thought he was just trying to make her jealous... because he's the reacher). - Watch HIMYM because it's funnier than whatever else you might be watching on Monday nights.