One of my best friends since I've been a kid is... concerning me. I never see him anymore. We're both 27. Both college grads. Both in good jobs. Both small business owners. The difference. I don't drink alcohol anymore. I have a girlfriend of over 3 years (soon to be fiancee) He is single. He drinks like he is still a freshman in college. Comes into work hung over, if not still drunk some days. Goes to bar at lunch sometimes. Weekends its always a party. Will not hang out with me, for any occasion, unless it's a party, or if the people are going to a bar. So he can party his fucking ass off and get shitty fucking drunk. It's always an excuse. Can not hold a girlfriend. Not willing to settle or move beyond honeymoon stage when fucking happens 5 times a day. Wants to go out and party and fuck every girl out there once they are over. In my opinion it's a release from a depression of some kind. Ive expressed my concerns. I get laughed at by him. My best friend that lives 800 miles away has visited me more in two years than the friend in question who lives 50 miles away. I'm concerned. Don't know what to do. Losing a friend. I can only try so much.