Are there guy laws you follow?

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  1. le_rocks

    le_rocks New Member

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    My best friend has a friend (lets call him Bill) that is not really social or good with talking with women. Well Bill and his friend finds a couple of college girls and are on a date. Later Bill calls us to come meet the two couple at a bar. Well we were already at another bar so we were kinda drunk and partying.

    We go to meet them at the bar and these girls were hot. I do my regular social thing and notice one of the college girls were flirting with me, while Bill is just sitting/standing there talking to his friend. I felt a little guilty so I backed off, walk over to Bill and say "Hey go buy her another drink" He says "I think she's good" ummm ok.... nite starts to die down and as we were leaving one of the girls asks me where we were going and if there is afterhours. Fortunately my friend was starting to be really drunk, and I said we're just gonna head home cause we're tired. She says "too bad" and that was it.

    I did the right thing right?
     
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    deleterious OT Supporter

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    I don't know man. If she OBVIOUSLY wasn't into him I would have gone for it. If she showed the slightest interest you did the right thing to stay away.
     
  3. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    thts why u ask him beforehand whether he was going for her or not?

    I know guys that don't care about that, but then again its usually acquaintances and not good friends.
     
  4. Memopad

    Memopad OT Supporter

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    You probably did the right thing if he was your friend. You need to guide the cock, not block it. Though it sounds like he wasn't going anywhere.
     
  5. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    what is him buying her a drink going to accomplish?
     
  6. Pwen

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    That's a little weird. Your buddy sounds a little off. If I were you and wanted the girl I would have made a move. You gave your buddy a heads up. The girls wanted to party and "Bill" wanted to talk to his male friend. I would be looking at Bill and questioning wtf his motives were there.

    Did Bill and his friend totally diss the girls? That's what it sounds like and that's sad. I would have a talk with Bill about this.
     
  7. Pringles

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    I would've taken her home. It's a dog eat dog world out there and you pretending to have laws is a falsehood. Survival of the fittest.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Your biggest problem was that you didn't articulate exactly what you wanted, which is so fucking typical for guys when they're talking to one another. I point it out to my boyfriend ALL THE TIME.

    Instead of looking at the girl and saying to your friend that he should buy her a drink you should have flat out asked him "hey, are you into that girl *point*?" That way if he said "yes" you could then know for yourself she was off limits. If he said "nah" or something to that effect you could have then said "is it cool if I buy her a drink?" or whatever and gone from there.

    Instead, now you are in this weird limbo wondering if you should have made a move and wondering if he'd be upset when you could have just asked him and gotten a clear answer right then and there.

    PS-What happened with the ex girlfriend?
     
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    lol you did good but ya you gotta be straight forward about that kinda stuff......
     
  10. Braddlac

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    ROFLMAO YOU SHOULD BUY HER A DRINK DUDE!! wtf would that accomplish, seriously? h5 yail
     
  11. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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  12. eXyle

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    i follow certain bro codes.

    however, if i'm too pussy to talk to a girl and my buddy swoops in, so be it. i don't see it as being cock-blocked. me being all emo about it and telling him she was mine would just be cock-blocking him.

    at most, i get the first crack at her. if i fail to take advantage of that opportunity, that's on me, not him.
     
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    Show the girl you're willing to pay for her attention :dunno:
     
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    No you didn't do the right thing. The girl was more interested in you and was looking for a good time. Bill had just as much chance at raising the girls attraction levels as you did. He failed, and you were just being nice trying to give him a chance that he already blew.
     
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    Wrong mindset. :nono:
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    pretty sure he's using sarcasm
     
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    Was "Bill" gay?
     
  18. NCS

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    you must have very different types of guy friends than i do
     
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  20. Yail Bloor

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    technically his post represents the correct mindset :)
     
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    its simple. If you value the friendship with the friend, ask first. If you dont care about the guy as a friend, fuck it and go for gold. I know which friends I'd ask first, and they are few. Maybe I'm a bad friend though.
     
  22. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    nah. it's how it works out there anyways. I've got buddies that I def look out for and then theres mild acquaintances where I sometimes wish I didn't know :mamoru:
     
  23. le_rocks

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    Yea I should have but in a way, I felt bad, cause Bill doesn't get much play in the first place. I usually am more forward, but i decided against it. I was just being too nice I guess. :hs:

    We were having a good time and hanging out and being intimate again. Then out of nowhere she was distant again. I gave it a few days, and after it was digging into me, I asked her "how do you feel about me?"

    She said something along the lines of "I will always have feelings for you, but I'm worried that I will never feel the same or act the same as we used to be"

    I replied "I know now that losing you was the worst thing I have ever done, if you ever gave me the chance I would make it up to you"

    We haven't talked since, it's been 3 weeks. lol So i'm taking your advice and just leaving it alone. :hs: I cant keep chancing after her. right?
     
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    I didn't value his friendship cause he was my best friend's friend. But knowing that he doesnt get much action anyways, I backed off. My best friend said I did the right thing.
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

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    agreed!!
     

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