i ask, how do you guys do it? ive never approached a lady directly and start a convo because im shy to. i guess i think of only the negative aspects. probably growing up with my sis yelling at her male friends gets me afraid cause i dont want that happening to me. i drive around a lot and see a lot of goodlooking ladies in the city, do they feel comfortable if i just pull next to them while there walking and just say like "hey there, would you happen to need a ride?" or something nice to offer? or approaching in a car is a downfall because they would feel like prositutes or something? what gets you motivated to approach another? whats your personal advice/tips? ladies, please chime in im 19, male if it matters. no im not one of those ugly fat dudes that stay on the comp posing as a hot boy LOL.