approaching at the club?

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  1. Mojo

    Mojo New Member

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    how do you guys approach a lady at a club when their with a group of friends or just by themselves? i came back empty handed after asking 5 girls to dance but all pretty much said no thanks. i dont think im that ugly but maybe my approach is horrible. i ask them for their name and introduce myself then ask if they would like to dance.
    any suggestions/tips/advice?
     
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  2. NCS

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    it has nothing to do with your looks. dont go to ask a girl to dance, go and talk to them.

    the good news is you have the balls to approach

    the bad news is you're doing it all wrong. there's a lot of advice in this forum, read it.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Hmm, well you're not my type but you are by no means ugly! And like NCS said, the great thing is you already have the confidence to even ask the girl! to dance. I'm not sure exactly what you say or maybe how you portray yourself (maybe you do seem really awkward and shy), and I have no clue what kind of girls you are asking.

    It's hard to approach a girl in a group of friends. I won't lie, a lot of times I try to hide in a big group of friends so I don't get asked to do anything....but I guess I'd say try to find agirl on the outskirts, one that you are truly interested in, or even just go up to a girl who is already on or by the dance floor because she most likely wants to dance.
     
  4. kdizzle59

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    do what i used to do.

    Me: hey want to dance
    girl: no
    Me: good you are not that attractive anyways
    10 minutes later
    girl: *finds me and approaches me* did you mean what you said?
    me: no, but want to dance since your here?
    girl: sure.

    it didnt work 100% of the time, it did work tho just make sure you are quick on your feet because you might have to duck a couple slaps.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    wow, mature.
     
  6. fray

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    ask to dance first, introduce later?

    that's about the worst possible pic you could ask anyone to judge you on...
     
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    lol when your drunk and not in a caring mood...it works.

    and also notice it says what i USED to do.
     
  8. fray

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    in other thread you just said you were 20 and couldn't go to bars. Where are you doing all this approaching at?
     
  9. kdizzle59

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    my Fraternity house..the pub at central where you can be 18 or the wayside.
     
  10. fray

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    gotcha
     
  11. kdizzle59

    kdizzle59 New Member

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    yea. i dont go there anymore, stopped goign because i was making really good money. dumb dumb move.
     
  12. fray

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    prostitute? :mamoru:
     
  13. kdizzle59

    kdizzle59 New Member

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    lol yea actually, were you a client?
     
  14. fray

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    no...ferris, not central. sorry...must've missed out.
     
  15. kdizzle59

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    haha probably not. did you graduate from ferris or still going ?
     
  16. fray

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    1 month left and then technically still enrolled (and paying fucking tuition), but at rotation sites back downstate.
     
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    ahh cool cool, well yea tuitions a bitch, thats why i quit paying
     
  18. fray

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    yeah....then they don't let you go anymore....

    apparently you just need to do more prostituting...
     
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    lol no i payed it off, but i decided i wasnt going to put myself in debt right now until i can make sure i will have some cash when i go back...i was the poster child for a pooooor college student.
     
  20. fray

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    student loans ftw!
     
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    lol, yea well its hard to get them when your parents made too much money in a year and you cant get them. then they dont want to help out when money is needed.
     
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    post a pic without a cloud of smoke coming out of your face
     
  23. bandwagon

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    I never really found much success in clubs. Not because I couldn't open, or whatever, but because the chicks all seemed to disqualify themselves like RIGHT away. The odds of finding a quality chick at a club are much lower.

    What I would do instead is do approaches in the club lineups. It's quieter, they aren't going anywhere, and they are likely bored. Once I got rapport with the set, I'd say "What are you guys doing going to this club? Come with me." and take the target's hand and lead her to a coffee shop or something.
     
  24. demosnat

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    mmm hookah
     
  25. Chip Chipperson

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    Unless you are going for girls who are uglier than you are, YOUR LOOKS DO NOT MATTER.

    Now, as for approaching, don't ask them to dance. Dancing does not get you a girlfriend or get you laid. Have a fucking, you know CONVERSATION WITH THEM SO THAT YOU GET TO KNOW IF THEY'RE A COOL PERSON AND NOT JUST A BITCH WHO APPLIES MAKEUP WELL. Aside from just being a non-chodeish thing to do, it has the practical benefit of actually getting you success in pickup.
     

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