Apparantly I'm not aggressive enough in the bedroom...

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  1. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I just got back from my girl's place. We had sex for an hour and a half. I had a blast, things seemed great. She came several times, even had some ass play. After we're done I knew I should have just got up and left instead of reviewing the activities. To make a long story short she says there's more I can do and that I can be more forceful. I ask her what? I mean I pull her hair, I smack her ass, and I fuck her hard, but it doesn't seem to be enough.

    I know how girls operate... I have to come up with these "new ideas" on my own and if she has to tell me what to do it won't be "special"... Horseshit is what I say...

    She likes a lot of dirty talk in the middle of the act but I'm really not that imaginative and talkative while I'm having sex... Talking during sex seems redundant and often times just plain silly... I do it, but not that much or often.

    Any ideas for being more "forceful" or "aggressive"?
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Maybe you should post this in FS? Seems like you'd be getting more into that forum's territory.
     
  3. 1.8t

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    Pin her arms back, lightly choke her, biting, be aggressive with her breasts. The idea that you are making her submit is what she is after. Control her and do what you want....any position you want don't ask or say anything, just pick her up and put her how you want her and bang away.
     
  4. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    play rape? tie her up? choke? skullfuck? pin her up against a wall and do her. turn her into your little slut. dont let her cum, make her beg for your cock.
     
  5. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I'm not very picky. On the side, from behind and someone on top is all I really need. I guess I'll just start throwing her around more.
     
  6. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Jeeze, can't we just fuck the normal way?? No those sound like good ideas.
     
  7. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    seems like guys are more willing to just poke and cum, whereas females have a greater need to keep it 'interesting' to get turned on, and lack the ability to just fuck regardless of redundancy.
     
  8. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I hear ya.. I mean I get kinda bored too sometimes. It just seems like so much work. I'm lazy.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    punch her in the face
     
  11. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I think I actually read that article somewhere before. I'll take another look.
     
  12. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    :rofl: :rofl: Sometimes I want to.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Looks like I've got lots to read. See, when sex becomes study are we really still fucking?
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    "You can do whatever you want to me," is a sentence I never want to hear ever again. 5 months later it turns out that that was supposed to mean anal sex. :rolleyes:
     
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    wow lauren, that sounds fun.. i don't like to be smacked in the face but i like pain during sex.. def talking to my bf about it now lol
     
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    this is almost always what "You can do whatever you want to me," means. it takes a pretty special free spirited girl to actually say "i want it in the ass"
     
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    Yes! Multiple positions, any angle, "doggie" style, run her into a corner where she can't get away and wail on it. If she tells you that you're hurting her, tell her to "shut up and take it like a woman!"
    She just wants you to assert yourself as the man in her life..., be that for her and she'll be everything/anything for you. ;)
     
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    or, she'll cry rape :rofl:
     
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    :rofl: Hey now, he said that she said that he could be "more forceful"..., you can be "forceful" and make sure she enjoys it at the same time you know. :naughty:

    And Sybian, since you're not the verbal one in the sack, tell her to tell you what you're doing to it, how you're making her feel, etc., etc..., let her be the verbal one, and if you're able to actually get up in there and work it and she starts to get a little too loud, tell her to "eat the pillow" before she wakes the dog/neighbors/dead..., you get the point. :x:
     
  21. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Yeah... I've spent the last half hour or so reading. I've got some new tricks that I'll be trying.
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

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    no, i recall asking what that might mean and anal sex was not a response anyone gave me.
    it takes maturity
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    seriously i just don't speak in code
     
  25. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Agreed.
     

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