Anything out there that can get a womens sex drive up?

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  1. multiplexor

    multiplexor Intellectual

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    Curious...

    my woman doesn't have the biggest sex drive, and i
    was wondering if theres anything that can be taken to up that?
    medical or non medical, anyone have ideas?
     
  2. Tk

    Tk Well-Known Member

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    give her a wild fuckin orgasm...

    is she on the pill? if not, get her on it, and about a month or so later she'll be wanting it like crazy. sometimes my girl comes over just ready to fuck, other times i have to get it started. usually its just a mutual thing though, i dont care if we dont have sex though, its not really a big deal for me. i could rub one out and be good for the day :)
     
  3. -=Likwid=-

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    if anyone finds anything let me know :o
     
  4. u NeeK

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    i'm more horny now that im off the pill....i probably need something to decrease my sex drive bc sometimes my bf has to turn me down or beg me to stop bc he cant go on anymore...im evil i guess, but i just get really horny and i needs it...
     
  5. multiplexor

    multiplexor Intellectual

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    lol we need to hookup then... ;-) hehe


    I think my gf's sex drive went down once she got off the pill...

    though doctors told her that sex drive usually goes down once you get on the pill...

    weird..
     
  6. DrEvil

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    The pill affects different women differently, I don't know if it's dropped my girls sex drive, but she doesn't get wet anymore because of it...

    There are some scents that are supposed to help, i think lavender and cucumber come to mind.

    But mostly try to spice up your sex life, not that the sex itself is lacking, but maybe, try to get her thinking about sex more when you aren't having it, like if you talk to her on the phone during the day get her thinking about making love later. Stuff like that...
     
  7. multiplexor

    multiplexor Intellectual

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    good idea actually :)
     
  8. play with her clit
     
  9. Dr. Feel Good

    Dr. Feel Good Yeah Baby This is All Part of a Routine Check up,

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    It's called a big cack, she's not gonna waste her time spreading her legs for that tootsie roll dick
     
  10. multiplexor

    multiplexor Intellectual

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    my ex has been with a few guys before... not many... no slut or anything.... her and my current gf both say i'm the biggest they've ever seen...

    meh... gotta go home... :)
     
  11. Error

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    Mine's almost entirely lost her drive since going off the pill. I have to fight for it.

    Then again, when I finally do get it... the inner goddess comes out, and life is good again. But yeah, there's gotta be something to give her that crazy drive back. 2 summers ago, 6-7 times in a day was SLOW for us. We were crazy. I miss those times :(
     
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    T_Dawgg son of god

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  13. CruD

    CruD Bah, I'll just hack it

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    My girl has NO sex drive AT ALL. She got on an anti-depressant (shes bi-polar) and an anti-psychotic pill and ever since then she is never in the mood and wont let me get her in the mood. She barely even likes to kiss now. :-\ , we used to be jackrabbits.lol.. not anymore...

    im cooking us a romantic dinner tonight, maybe that'll do somtehing.
     
  14. dbman96

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    My lady went on Prozac and her sex drive went :down: like a rock.

    She asked her dr about it and he said that was a normal side effect of lots of antidepressants, then he gave her some Wellbutrin and suggested she try taking the Wellbutrin in combination with the Prozac. The combination had her ready to go like some kind of crazy psychotic bunny rabbit. Great stuff!

    Seriously, have your girl talk to her Dr or pharmacist, they can probably counteract the effects of the drugs.
     
  15. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Nope, my libido went in the dumper on the pill. It was a gradual thing to. But it hit in spades when I got off of it.

    Still, knowing how to please your woman is important. That's in and out of bed. If you're taking her for granted, if you don't make her feel special like you did when you first got together, well, there's your answer. When the magic is gone, it's gone.

    Sex is emotional for many women. If there isn't something else there, she's not going to be interested. If she wants to spend time with you, she'll want something more.

    Sorry boys, it's not about the cack.
     
  16. AQT4u2NV

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    pill=absolutely no sex drive for me :sadwavey:
     
  17. chlywly

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    My girlfriends sex-drive has died due to depression/sickness and well going off of Depo-provera and totaly getting her hormone levels off-balance.


    Truthfuly I don't believe there is ANY magical syrup that will enhance her sex-drive or her want or need for sex :( This is a problem in many relationships an it ends up ruining a lot of them as well.

    The only thing she and you can do is get her to feel good about herself, to excercise and eat healthy :) And communicate as much as possible,

    then let the sands of time heal all. If it gets really bad for over 1 year go see a doctor.
     
  18. SweetAsCanBe

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    I would have to agree w/Morter Forker..... Intimacy is my number one turn on. Making a woman feel loved, special, beautiful, and desired is so important. Its the basis of keeping a woman happy, IMO. Once you have accomplished that, she will feel better about herself, bc of your compliments and sincere actions, thus she will feel 'closer' to you, and should want to show it.
     
  19. FireIce

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    I think the pill lowered my sex drive. Something did. When my boyfriend and I first got together, we couldn't stop fucking. But now it's slowed down. Now we only have sex 2-4 times a week. Sometimes less, sometimes more.

    I know watching porn puts me in the mood. It doesn't with all girls, but it can't hurt to try.
     
  20. CruD

    CruD Bah, I'll just hack it

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    My girl won't watch porn.
     
  21. CruD

    CruD Bah, I'll just hack it

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  22. Horken

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    There are a couple things. Get some oil, candles, and some romantic music and give her a long body massage. As you're moving down her back and into her butt and legs, touch her a little bit. Tell her to turn over and massage the front of her too.

    Your other option is to go south. That always works for me!
     
  23. TheProwler

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    What Horken said. Work her mind.
     

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