Im kinda in a situation right now that most of you are aware of. My gf and I havent have sex since November due to me worrying about pregnancy. I do care alot for her, but she seems to place a high level of need for intimate encounters where I dont. I dont mind not having sex and doing other stuff like oral sex and she loves anal sex. Anyways, she doenst want to take the bc pill as said because she keeps insisting that it will cause cancer or make her risk higher since a few family memeber have uterus cancer. I respect her for that, but I dont want to have sex with just a condom due to it not being effective, if it broke etc. I hear the pill is like 99.9 percent or something like that? Is there any kind of conjunction that can be used with the condom for that effect? Im just so worried that my gf will leave me sooner or later over this and i dont want to lose her. She is very horny and a very beautiful girl, and seems to want it a few times a week!!