Anyone unhappy or frustrated with their current sex life?

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  1. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Perhaps I'm very picky, perhaps I'm spoiled, perhaps I'm simply desensitized by copious amounts of porn throughout the years and a great deal of very kinky girlfriends. (I rarely get hard when looking at porn anymore).

    Anyways, although at certain points I wasn't fully happy with the sex life my ex and I shared, over all it was pretty amazing... What did I like? well first of all I was very attracted to her physically, and on top of that the fit and rhythm was just right. She loved fast, hard, deep sex and well I whole wholeheartedly concur. She also swallowed after giving me head, and would always try to finish me off... She would love when I came unto her (wasn't on BC) and would rub my load into her skin..... It was terribly extremely HOT!

    She also would cum and squirt all over my dick, ummm again hot as hell.

    The current girl I'm seeing, gives better head off the bat (although she hasn't been using her hands, I'm going to have to mention this although I've tried moving her hand for her to get the point across and it hasn't worked)... But she's said she does not like the taste of semen in passing and well that's a HUGE fucking turn off.

    On top of that, the rhythm and fit just isn't right... she seems to mainly enjoy being on top, and takes for ever to get off, and likes it really SLOW and STEADY... I fucking get soft and fall half a sleep..... Sure we've had rougher hotter sex, maybe twice and both times she complained of getting sore after although during she loved it (yeah well comes with the program girl)...

    Anyways, I think I'm airing my frustration more than anything....... Eghrrrr, she also seems timid, she barely grabbed my cock until I told her she needs to be more forward and forceful, it's not a feather.... Fuck sake........ Shit drives me insane......... people who are sexually clueless.....

    Also, she rarely MOVES in the positions, I have to do all the fucking work... GIRL, move your goddamn ASS! Move that pelvis.

    Not sure how long I can put up with a mediocre sex life, I don't even have the desire........... :hsd:
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Im partly scared to even bother havnig sex with a girl cause I feel that they wont be able to truely 'satisfy' me.

    I had the quickie after work on monday and it wasnt even worth it to me. I was seriously upset after it =\
     
  3. chlywly

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    Thats what I'm saying broseph... It's actually quite ridiculous and upsetting how MANY women, have NOOOOO idea as to what on earth they are doing... They are completely sexually CLUELESS!!! They expect a man to not only get turned on, by virtue of them simply being there... but also they expect us to make all the fucking moves and do all the work.

    :greddy:
     
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    last I had sex was thurs night and now I wont have any till nov. GF is out of the country so yes I am frustrated with my sex life :wtc:
     
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    cant say im in the same boat.

    my SO gives great head and swallows, rythm is great and she is not a dead fish in bed, very attracted to her, switch positions, etc....

    the only thing that gets to me is when she's WASTED. she takes forever to get off. even then, when she knows she's not she says fuck it lets just get you off.

    <3
     
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    when my gf is drunk its like a race for her to see how fast she can get my sausage buried deep inside her asshole :bowrofl:
     
  7. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    P.S: The two times I came on her, she actually looked slightly grossed out... HUGE TURN OFF.. And her pussy smelled like fucking FISH for weeks (she had bacterial vaginitis aaand a yeast infection when we met) sheeeeeeeeeeesh
     
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    Sounds to me like you are still hung up on your ex. :dunno:

    But, also, there is a such thing as sexual compatibility. Just like you will NEVER EVER satisfy EVERY girl you fuck, neither will every girl you fuck satisfy you.

    It's nothing to be insecure about (on the chance you can't satisfy her) or complain about (if she can't satisfy you). It's just one of the many wonderful clues in dating that you either are or are not compatibile.
     
  9. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Yep..... just airing some frustration.
     
  10. THoC

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    good times.

    drunk sex is great. but i have a better time when she gets off too. oh well, gotta learn not to care if she doesnt :)
     
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    jesus dude. it sounds like you are very frustrated w. this chick.

    have you talked to her about it?

    i cant see this RS lasting very long.
     
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    She knows I'm frustrated, but she doesn't know the full breadth of it.
     
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    haven't had sex since for 3 weeks (feels longer, I had to go back and check) and I don't really care. in fact I had a girl rubbing up on me sunday night whispering "take care of me tonight" and I left as soon as I had a chance to go home and watch a documentary :rofl:

    you sound pretty unhappy in your situation. why even bother continuing with her?
     
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    She's got a great personality and we seem to get a long quite well.. It's definitely keeping me here.
     
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    she should probably know all of it.
     
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    nothing worse than a girl who doesn't take care of herself.
     
  17. Abomb

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    was the chick ugly ?
     
  18. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    She had no idea supposedly...
     
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    you gay?
     
  20. wolfskymoon

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    it's great mon.
     
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    you're happy with being a virgin?
     
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    The sex im having with my gf is amazing. She gives great head. She gets off easily (and a lot, we're talking 15-20 times in 1 session) and is totally in sync with me. Sorry had to brag, because it seems like it's really hard to find a girl that I truly enjoy the whole experience with.
     
  23. wolfskymoon

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    Well it's not something that makes me unhappy. And why can't you for once not see my post. :wtc: I want people to think I am banging models 24/7. But I have carefully reduced my chances of get laid on purpose, it is completely intentional. Think about it, if I actually was with a woman, she would never let me have fun times like this.
    http://i681.photobucket.com/albums/vv172/wolfskymoon11/DSC00460-1.jpg
     
  24. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    The one thing that is better about relationships and sleeping with just one girl for a while is better sex.
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    We could definitely be having more sex, but then again we just moved into a house and are constantly working on it so we are exhausted :dunno:
     

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