Anyone here paid for first time sex?

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  1. dirkalirk

    dirkalirk New Member

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    Im 18yo, tall, fit, fairly attractive, have some social skills etc but for one reason or another Ive just never had sex. Anyways Im gonna try and get an escort in the next week or so before I head off to college. So... I thought Id ask if anyone else has paid for first time sex and if so, how was it?

    Honestly I dont think it will be a big deal I just want to get it out of the way already so I can have SOME experience for the future. Also I dont really give a shit about how I lose it at this point I just want to get laid so I can move on and gain some confidence.
     
  2. BradUF

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    Your going to regret that.
     
  3. dirkalirk

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    sweet dude. Great post buddy you really are a lamer
     
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    Given the subject of this thread, I wouldn't be calling somebody else a lamer.

    I don't think you should do it either.
     
  5. dirkalirk

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    why not?
     
  6. Kinks

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    I was at the same point, it was becoming a bigger and bigger hangup and I just wanted to get broken in so I knew what all the fuss was about and could prove/disprove my belief that I knew how to pleasure a woman (god bless you, internet).

    I ended up hooking up with a friend who lived interstate while both of us were holidaying in the same spot. As far as first times go (not that I'd have basis for comparison :rofl: ) it was fair to good. I didn't orgasm or even come close, but she did. I was more chuffed at giving a woman an orgasm than I was about throwing my sausage into her, so on that basis it was a success :)

    Can't say I'm really one for prostitution, if it had gone on for another couple of years I would have considered it but I was 21 when I lost it.

    To my mind, paying for it basically removes the challenge. Sure, you'd get that first notch on your belt and a bit of confidence but you're still no closer to working out how to get onto women in a social situation. When you start to figure that out you get REAL confidence, and that's what shows. Once you hit that point women will be throwing pussy at you left right and centre :)
     
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    you're going to bang that prostitute then your dick will turn purple and fall off the next day
     
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    sif noob

    liek go adn hook up wif sum chik and fuk he cuz u sed u hav good soshal skillz so liek get a gf k
     
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    Wow who calls anyone a lamer anymore? What is this 1998?

    And I agree.

    Paying for sex for your first time is as lame as it gets.
     
  10. RedVsBlue

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    He is a lamer? You have to be the most pittyful excuse for a human ever to post in this forum.

    :rofl: Go get yourself a whore, then when your dick won't get hard to fuck her because you are so nervous your first time, enjoy being made fun of by a PROSTITUE!

    And apparently you are far from...
    Because even the fat, utterly unattractive, hermits, can get sex if they want it these days, even from a descent girl. Hell I managed too, thats hope for anyone!

    Honestly, why dont you just sterilize yourself now, even the chance that you could reproduce could be destructive to modern society.

    O yea....
    wtf?:ugh2:
     
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    if you do, i wouldnt tell anyone about it, especially not any girl you are trying to hook up with. complete turn off.

    and 18 isnt late to have sex naturally, id give it a few more years. maybe a 21st bday present or something. at least give yourself a chance to lose it the real way.
     
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    Anger problem? Maybe that's why you have to pay for it.

    Make sure you dont leave any bruises on the hooker. Lamer.
     
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    college = pussy...


    wait it out.. you'll be fine.
     
  14. Guardfather

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    Man, that would be a truly foolish move. What you need to do is be patient. Using a prostitute is a horrible idea. What if you get a disease from her? They can claim to be clean, but when you fuck around for money, you are almost guaranteed to get a disease. Keep in mind some diseases don't show symptoms right away or don't ever show symptoms for some people. There's a LOT to worry about in the world of sex, and you increase your chances of those worries becoming nightmares by having sexual contact with a prostitute. Escort is a way of candy-coating the "title" and making it seem harmless. I think you should try not to even use the word escort, as it's a way of bullshitting yourself.

    Either you should share your frustration with a female friend who might be willing to be your first, or you should wait. You don't want to have to tell a girlfriend that not only did you lose your virginity to a prostitute, but you may very well be carrying diseases as a result. Don't think that a condom is enough to protect you.

    Are you worried that you won't know how to fuck? You could go into another arena and buy a sex toy to practice fucking so you at least know you have the muscles developed to a point of comfort and the basic motions down to a familiarity. To be completely honest, I did that years ago. Just don't get something designed for absolute maximum stimulation, as it may make the real thing feel inadequate.

    Your posts make it clear that you are frustrated with not having lost your virginity yet, but also that your logic is very incomplete. There's a lot more to consider, which should immediately deter you from wanting to use a prostitute. Don't let the frustration and desperation get to you.

    Ultimately, I think the best choice is very clear and very simple. Let it happen naturally with a good woman, not a whore. You won't regret it.
     
  15. BradUF

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    I didnt lose mine until 20. But I could have easily got a ho, for free at a party. Fuck I had a chance when I was 17 but I was to stupid to and drunk at the time to fuck that chick.

    If you want to lose it that bad then just goto a party, get drunk and find a drunk chick. Most people regret doing that too though. I am glad I waited until my hawt gf came along, been with her 2 years.

    O yeah one thing everyone forgot to mention. You will suck hardcore at sex the first time, not only will it take you a min to figure out how to put a condom on correctly, and you want to make sure its on right. Your dick will slip out alot and you will cum fast.
     
  16. RedVsBlue

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    I didnt suck my first time...it took some time to figure out what exactly I was doing, just because it was my first time...but it didnt go bad at all after that.

    everyone is going to be different, and the female really can make the difference to.
     
  17. BradUF

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    Well I sucked and so has one of my friends the first time.
     
  18. low20

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    having sex 1 time with a hooker is not going to giv u "expierience" its not like people suck their first time and then last forever their second time...u will most likley suck for a long time so u might as well just wait to do it for free with someone u may care about.
     
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    It seems hit or miss...doesnt matter. Its not like your first time defines your sex life...
     
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    If the college girls find out you are a virgin, there are a few of them who are virgin hunters who would want to pop your cherry. But they are usually not attractive.
     
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    i dunno, there were quite a few attractive virgin hunters that I knew, they were just really slutty :nono:
     
  22. chica&buddies

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    i'm gonna go ahead and close this due to the [obvious] bad start.

    imo, don't let your first time be with a prostitute. a nice girl will come around soon... stop looking :). besides, i was 18 when i first had sex. :dunno: don't rush it, it's NOT a big deal, and going the prostitution route has the potential of changing your life forever, in an irreversible way!

    just keep that in mind...
     
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