Anyone Have Friends That Tell you Nothing...

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  1. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    about their dating life? When we ask him about the girls he goes out with he just responds with "nobody" or "it's not worth talking about".

    What's up with people like this?

    He just got a new 335 and hasn't even mentioned it once. This guy is so secretive.
     
  2. illmaceyougood

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    Better than hearing every single detail.
     
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    Why does this bother you? Why do you need to know the details of other people's lives?
     
  4. BradUF

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    I bet his dating life sucks.
     
  5. strik9

    strik9 Verbing weirds language.

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    he frequents sex clubs
     
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    Either he likes his privacy and/or figures it'd get annoying telling you at some point.
     
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    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Perhaps you have made fun of him in the past and he refuses to share anything personal with you. Or perhaps you told secrets that a 3rd friend shared with you and therefore you are not trustworthy in his eyes. Perhaps he's ashamed that he isn't dating much or even the kind of girls that meet his expectations so instead of being excited about dating them, he's ashamed....so he doesn't want to talk about it.

    There....those are 3 plausible explanations....I could come up with more.
     
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    it's personal, and none of your business.
     
  9. CPipes

    CPipes Shit definitely just got real!! OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't consider anyone like that a friend, so no.
     
  10. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    my thoughts exactly.
     
  11. 1200mk

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    if they were a true friend.... it wouldn't be that like.
     
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    maybe he likes guys? and is afrai you will make fun of him, or something?>
     
  13. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    naw... Ive bumped into a few girls he's dated at clubs.
     
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    my friends have no need to know intimate details of my personal life. theres plenty of things to talk about.
     
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    I want his 335!
     
  16. Ford4Life

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    I'm a guy, and I don't tell my friends anything about my girlfriend. They know her name, that's about it. The details of our relationship are private and it's nobodys business but ours.
     
  17. 1200mk

    1200mk Still same OG

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    i am not looking for details, is a name too much to ask for?

    There's a difference btwn telling strangers about your personal life and tell your "friends".
     
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    Why should he tell people? Talking about things has a way of screwing things up. No one can keep their mouths shut.
     
  19. Ford4Life

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    Something tells me you want to know a lot more than just her name.

    Some people, like myself, are very private. If you respected your friendship with this person you would accept the boundaries he's set when it comes to his personal life. The more you attempt to intrude the less he's going to tell you.
     
  20. 1200mk

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    He asks about our lives all the time. But when it comes to him.."nothing to talk about"
     
  21. Ford4Life

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    Stop giving him info about your personal life then.
     
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    I keep my personal life pretty private, the only people that know any real details about the women I date are my two closest friends. Outside of them I don't let too much information out.
     
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  24. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    I agree with all of these.

    I personally generally give people one chance to keep private things private and if they get leaked then I won't tell them anything "private" again. I don't treat them any differently as a friend, just I won't share anything that I don't want to get out.

    My best mate can't keep a secret, so I don't tell him mine anymore. It doesn't change our friendship though, just changes some of the topics. We'd still do anything for each other.
     
  25. FurryFriend

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    Guys don't feel a need to verbalize their feelings as much as girls. So it's normal for him to keep it to himself.

    Besides, no offense, but getting dating advice from women is pointless. They'll just say the old boring cliches. So why bother?
     

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