For a halloween party im going as a cowboy (her Idea) and she wants to roll play after the party. I think it would be an incredible turn on to hand cuff her and whip her ass, I have never used anything like a whip and just wanted to get any tips, advise or warnings. I'm thinking if I under hand flip the wip it will still be able to get up to her ass and not just enought to be kinky but not enough to actually hurt her. PS. does anyone know where I can buy one?