Anyone had to deal with this?

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  1. Zackkahry

    Zackkahry New Member

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    Basically, the girl I'm with is so tight that sex is more painful than enjoyable for her. I'm bigger around than is average, so this complicates things further. I honestly don't know what to tell her, so I'm looking to you guys for some advice. She talked to her doctor and they recommended some stretches she could do and that she get some sort of toy with an adjustable size so she can loosen up before sex, but can we do anything else?

    And yes, we already use lube and take is slow
     
  2. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    You really have to "warm" her up. Give her a ton of foreplay and then try again.

    Even with my GF, who I sleep with 2-3x a day, if we skip the foreplay and just use lube, it still hurts her.
     
  3. ldaggerl

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    yeah best thing to do is just try and get her stretched a bit before hand. I believe that if you do this enough she may loosen up after a while and you won't have to go through all this every time.
     
  4. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    get her off other ways before trying to penetrate, even then use lube. lots of lube. & make sure she's relaxed. if she's expecting it to hurt & tensing up thats not helping either of you.
     
  5. Buttons

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    I'd guess that she's not relaxed enough?
     
  6. Zackkahry

    Zackkahry New Member

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    I do this before just about ever time.
     
  7. HailStorm

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    This is how it has to be done for me. I'm really skinny and tight and if the penis is not in the exact right angle it is extremely painful. Go VERY slow and figure out what way she likes the penis to enter.
     
  8. lauren

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    so what, she's never going to have kids?
     
  9. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    eat her out. get her wet. penetrate.
     

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