Anyone else have a 'flowchart' when dating...

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  1. BadRotation

    BadRotation New Member

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    Basically when dating and getting to know someone, I have a specific set of things I find out rather soon (over the course of the first two dates) that determine if the person is even worth (to me at least) dating.

    Basically, if they drink regularly, party, or are in a sorority; they are out. Smoking is ok, but unnatractive. If they have ever cheated, or taken up any other whorish behavior they are instantly out, etc..

    Its almost like I follow a flowchart when getting to know someone. 9/10 girls fail quickly, but the ones that make it through these questions with the answers I am looking for tend to be quality women who are worth my time.

    I have found that using this method saves ALOT of money and time on dates, since you are not dating girls who do not share the same values as you.


    Just wondering if anyone else uses a similar method of getting the answers that matter most up front, and then worry about the small stuff....
     
  2. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Yes. This is called qualifying. I set up a routine that I could qualify women in about 5 minutes. Saves a LOT of time, and then you can play cool natural game when you've determined that they are worth it.
     
  3. Socrates

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    Yes, definitely.

    One of my big ones is seeing how they act around their family. To see how they treat the people they love.

    One of my tests is having sex with them! If I can sleep with a girl on the first night, she's out. It may seem stupid, but if I need to post an argument on why it's more acceptable for men to sleep around than women, I will.
     
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    Yeah, most of the time this happens before any dates occur.
     
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    my criteria are 1. do they have verizon (no sense in running the wireless bill up) and 2. do they like sushi (it is quite delicious afterall). i just kinda just wing it for the rest.

    edit: oh yeah, smoking is pretty gross so i can't talk to anyone that smokes.
     
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  6. BadRotation

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    My big ones are (like said above):

    Drink more than once or twice a month........ OUT
    Party..................................................... OUT
    Sorority................................................. OUT
    Sleeps with random guys.......................... OUT (she has to either be waiting till marriage, or only sleep with those who she has been with for quite a while and loves)
    Materialistic........................................... OUT
    Smokes................................................. Depends
    Materialistic........................................... OUT
    Treats others/family disrespectfully............ OUT
    Dresses slutty........................................ OUT


    THose are the main ones...
     
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    One of the most important: Good relationship with her family (especially her father).
     
  8. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    How about how she treats people she doesn't know? I know people who are absolute angels to their family, people they love and those they see as equals or above, yet absolute assholes to those who they see as 'below' them (ie waiters etc etc). That, to me, is much worse than possibly not getting along with their family depending on the reason.

    I do agree with your sleeping stance.
     
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    I have to add just one more: Was she EVER, at ANY time, a cheerleader...if YES.....OUT!
     
  10. Falconer

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    Can you post your routine?
     
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    :h5:
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Everyone does this.
     
  13. lauren

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    wow :rofl:

    hardly any of those are important to me....basically my qualifications are how well i get along with him, and if generally hes someone i can respect (which does take into consideration things like intelligence, morals and generally how he conducts himself....but more generall vibe, and less checklist).
     
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    Haha I'd love to see a girl that was so perfectly innocent and old fashioned...also she chain smokes. Seriously though, at least at my age it would be pretty hard to find a girl like that unless looks are absolutely of no concern. It would be impossible in college. That is unless you go to Bob Jones University or something. Good wife material though.
     
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    I think this thread should be linked in the "how do people end up alone?" thread. ;)
     
  17. soundmaster2.0

    soundmaster2.0 Toasted OT Supporter

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    That is pretty much the same way I think.

    Also maturity is a big thing. I know a lot of really hot girls that act like they are 12, and while that may turn on a good many of the members here I can't stand it.
     
  18. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Agreed
     
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    I most definitely do. I'll also ask about their ex boyfriends and why they broke up, and if we have mutual friends(which is usually the case), I'll like "cross-reference" it with them. Like.. if an ex boyfriend cheated or something similar, and their reaction is 'fucking piece of shit cheated on me, I hate him for it' or something like that.. I'm like, you win. That's why most girls don't last past the 1st date.
     
  20. RoblesGT

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    so you bastards basically interview them ... :hsugh:

    i just get to know them as time goes ... not that complicated reaRRy ... :hsughno:
     
  21. BadRotation

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    Not impossible, I have found several
     
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    WTF? :coolugh:
     
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    StopDrop&LOL "Where The Elite Become Champions"

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    I came in here to post that. I do the same thing. I try to do all i can to sleep with them on the first date. If they give in, they're a whore and i can em the next day. If they dont give in, i usually hint to them, they passes part 1 of my test ;)
     
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    StopDrop&LOL "Where The Elite Become Champions"

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    Not all girls are sluts. Those just happen to be some of the qualities of majority of the sluts out there. Is it hard to find a woman like this? It depends, if you say yes, youre probably looking in the wrong place.

    A girl can drink/party...as long as its DONE IN MODERATION. Each person has their own definition of moderation. Also, are they partying ALL NIGHT till like 4 am? Partying once a week and not getting sloshed/coming home late is cool with me. Also, are they inviting you to go out with them? I think thats key to deciding if you should keep her/dump her, because if shes really into you, she would want to 'go out' and have a good time with you, dance, laugh, etc.
     
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    Jesus Christ. This thread just totally creeps me out. I seriously hope I never date a guy that keeps some kind of moral checklist of what I do and/or don't do...so impersonal.
     

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