Like a girl may have interest in you, but you move way to fast/to strong? Maybe act a little obcessive? Are there any ways to solve this problem of not going to fast? What is the definition of "going to fast"? I like to talk to this girl every night, and she likes to talk with me too, but i dont want to ruin this "friendship" up because we both are very into each other and possibly hook up soon. ex. Sometimes i talk to my friends like she is already my GF.