Anybody dated their best friend's sister?

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  1. JPitts

    JPitts uwsigep

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    To me, this is a big :nono:

    but as im talking to her more (best friends sister) the more I like her. Shes his younger sister of two years.


    Not sure what to do here. Im thinking she might feel something for me too because shes been real flirty lately.


    I do really like her and can see us going places but I dont want my friendship with my best friend to end because we have been through a lot and have too many memories to just lose a friendship over that.


    Suggestions?
     
  2. Improvolone

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    I dated my friends sister recently.
    He is one year older than I am, she is two years younger than I am.
    He was perfectly okay with it, but the relationship ended due to other problems.
    To quote him, he was more worried about me getting hurt than about her.
    My friend is a weird guy, he is okay with alot of things, so I purposly kinda sprung the "I'm dating your sister" thing on him for a laugh. He kinda figured it out once before since we had just finished spending a weekend together.
    All in all, if it's something you think your friend won't like, talk to him, and don't just get a blow off answer.
    Unless you are fucking evil to her, it shouldn't affect your friendship.
     
  3. Tex

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    Run it past your friend and see how he feels about the possibility. It's not rocket science.

    It's probably going to be just a little awkward, though.
     
  4. pdsterns

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    I don't see any problem here, it could be very nice and natural. Probably should run it by him first, tell him you care for her. Hey he is youre best friend, you must be okay with him
     
  5. Asses Maximus

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    I would not be happy if it were my sister. Especially since she is younger than me. There is this notion of innocence. I know she will grow up and do her thing, but I am still her older brother and I am an ass about this sort of thing. My friends and I have an understanding that sisters are off limits. Though we do still tease each other, becuase our sisters are pretty damn good looking.
     
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    I would flip out if it was my sister, but then again i'm very protective. Thank god we have completely opposite personalities and i've never seen her out at bars/clubs grinding some guy. IMO it is more off-limits than dating a buddies ex-g/f, but that's just my point of view, your friend might not care.
     
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    My brother married his best friend's sister.
    Since I'm not a guy I don't know that I have the same mindset here, but I think it would depend on the seriousness of the relationship. If it was just a girl to date to "get some", then I would think it's a no-no....if it was pretty serious, I would hope your best friend would understand.
     
  8. SeaMack99

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    I dated my supervisors daughter. I had no problems :dunno:
     
  9. Asses Maximus

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    What about your supervisor?
     
  10. lazarus

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    Yup, he went CRAZY (not my best friend, but close). We split after 3 months, and I still haven't spoke to him 2 years later.
     
  11. ERock

    ERock My Face Is Kittah OT Supporter

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    One of my bestfriends dated my younger sister. I trusted him and he knew that if he did anything bad I would beat his ass.

    It just didnt work out when they dated but they are still friends so no bad blood between anyone.
     
  12. Bona Fide

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    Bro's before ho's...right?
     
  13. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    Yes.
    But girlfriends are not hos. I mean, if your bro has a major issue with it, figure that one out. But bro v hoe isn't always a winner take all.
     
  14. Burmonster

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    I am still going to have sex with your sister one day Alex, mark my words...

    :eek3::run:
     
  15. Atheist

    Atheist oh, hi OT Supporter

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    I would say absolutely not. One of my former good friends started talking to my sister and eventually they started hanging out, etc. It completely destroyed our friendship and he and I no longer talk.

    Don't do it!
     
  16. purplebeast

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    I dated my best friends lil cousin. They were raised togither so they acted like brother and sister. No issues. me and her broke up after 18 months, but to this day im still friends with him.


    Plus I can bug the shit out of him with " I fucked ur cousin" jokes when he makes smart ass jokes:bigthumb:
     
  17. Improvolone

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    So because you had a bad experience, you advise everyone to stay away, despite the stories we've told so far that don't ruin friendships?
     
  18. SeaMack99

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    Never in a million years. She had no teath, vericose veins, and no ankles. And I got a freaky thing for ankles. Sometimes she made me wonder if she was her real daughter.
     
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    Marrying her this month
     
  20. JPitts

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    well i think if things between us (his sister) get more serious and we start hanging out more, ill run it by my friend.

    thanks for the advice/warnings!
     
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    I hope that by more serious that doesn't mean, "we're hooking up now..."
     
  22. JPitts

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    :mamoru: no


    im going to the mall with her this weekend. if i can tell she feels the same way about me, then il tell my buddy
     

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