FRK Any women here actually enjoy anal-sex?

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  1. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Was just wondering; do you actually enjoy it? and I don't mean you enjoy it because it turns on your SO and so turning them on makes you feel good about it. I mean do you actually enjoy the sensation to want to incorporate anal-sex into your sex life and look forward to it? like oral-sex for example?
     
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    shoulda searched this topic, it's been talked about a lot. Some people posted saying their s/o couldn't have an orgasm UNLESS having anal sex. so yeah, it is apparently enjoyable.
     
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    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    I find the sensations involved with anal sex QUITE enjoyable when done correctly. And yes, it is fast becoming a nessessary part of my sex life. More so than Oral sex. :)
     
  4. hotbabe

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    i've had it once and can't wait to have it again. it was quite enjoyable.
     
  5. 12xalt

    12xalt petrolsexual

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    I love it, I'm the one who initiates it most of the time. I have to be in the right mood for it, but when I am, oh boy oh boy oh boy.
     
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    yeah i love it when the mood is right. sometimes its just not what i would prefer, but when i am in the mood for it it feels AMAZING. I dont even know what it is I like about it, but as long as I or he can play with my clit while we do it, I am sooo turned on and orgasm very quickly
     
  7. dnallivah

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    It's amazing.

    As long as the other half knows what he's doing.
     
  8. chlywly

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    Ok cool ;) thats what I thought...... I love anal-sex my girlfriend is very scared of it; but I think as long as she has an open mind she may actually enjoy it, we sort of tried it for a few minutes, but I wasn't completely inside; and not very much lube....

    The thought of it; the sensation its all a HUGE turn on :) but the other party is more reluctant, but hey not everyone has the same desires :)
     
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    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    giving and receiving :naughty:
     
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    So all of you women who enjoy anal-sex; were you first very apprehensive about attempting it? scared etc; what got you into it?
     
  11. dnallivah

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    I just wanted to try something new. Sure I was a tad bit nervous about it, but it was nothing a bit of lube and a calm boyfriend couldn't fix.
     
  12. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Well, I'm still in the scared stage, meself....but I keep looking into it because I have so many female friends who love it, so I can't help thinkin' maybe there is sometime to this...
     
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    I enjoy it a lot when I masturbate. My current boyfriend doesnt want to do it and I am fine with just pleasuring myself that way. I can control it more and know just what to do to get off anally. I was very scared when I first did it and still am a bit since I havent done it(other than masturbating) in years.
     
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    12xalt petrolsexual

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    It wasn't something I wanted, my boyfriend at the time wanted to try it, and since I enjoyed it when he would finger my ass, I decided that I might as well let him try it

    turns out, I liked it way more than he did, not that he didn't like it, but we never did it that often after that, he went back to using a finger most of the time and sticking to vaginal

    my current fwb and only the third person I've done it with REALLY enjoys it, I think if he were to get his way, we'd do it everytime I visit, not only that, he likes more than just that, but he seems to really like to finish that way
     
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    :naughty: nice
     
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    kinda funny that i see this thread today...

    last night i fingered my g/f in the ass while i was going down on her. welll, i guess i more just worked it in, then sorts left it there while i licked her clit. i've never done anything like that, and neither has she, so i was tryin to just let her get used to the feeling he my finger being there. she freakin loved it. she came like no other. it was great.

    she wants me to do it again sometime. :)
     
  17. neebelung

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    Yes, I do honestly enjoy it. It's something I initiated actually, as my current boyfriend hadn't tried it before he met me. But given the right circumstances (i.e. must be very realxed, start slow, well-lubricated) it's AWESOME.... I have actually cum from it, or if I'm close but not quite there, it's quite easy to cum with just a little clitoral stimulation.

    It is a normal/regular part of our sex life, though not nearly as often as regular and oral sex (cus I have this fear of ending up with "porn star butt..." ya know, where the guy pulls out and her ass is still a gaping hole). Strangely, I think we had it three times last week, which was VERY unusual, but then we may go a month without doing it again.


    Edit: with all this talk of ass-fingering....

    long before we had ever actually had anal sex, my boyfriend would frequently finger my ass... but not just during foreplay! I mean, we'd be in the movie theatre, making out like kids, and he'd slide a hand down the back of my jeans, and work a finger into my ass. And he'd either work it in and out a little, or we'd just sit with it like that. But it would get me SOOO hot, by the time we left the theatre, I'd end up blowing him in the car in the parking lot.
     
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  18. Trina

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    I had always said I would do everything else, just no anal. Hubby and I got into him using his finger/fingers there and then his tongue, THAT is amazing in itself. Then one evening a few years ago, I was so stirred up I told him I wanted him in my ass.

    Been doing it regularly ever since, I LOVE IT!
     
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    I don't think my SO would beg me to "FUCK THAT ASS!!" while having anal sex if she didn't like it. Plus the fact that she tells me she loves it indicates that some women do enjoy anal sex.
     
  20. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    I have only done it a couple times, but I do like the sensation. Sometimes though if he enters too quickly it hurts and then I'm not into anymore though. I'd like to get much more practice though because it really does feel awesome!
     
  21. neebelung

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    Practice won't necessarily make it hurt less.... for me, I've found staying totally relaxed, makijng sure he's REALLY well lubed (saliva seems to be the best) and just starting out nice and slow, will make it hurt less.

    If I suck him for a good bit first, and get his cock really slick, then bend over and spread my cheeks for him, he can ease it in with very little pain. Then once he's fully in, and takes a couple slow strokes, then I'll tell him once I'm relaxed enough, and he can go at it full speed, and pound it into me, without hurting me.
     
  22. Trina

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    Astroglide and K-Y warming gel are both wonderful lubes. :big grin:
     
  23. neebelung

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    Yeah I've heard good things about the astro-glide, and keep meaning to pick some up. Personally, I can't IMAGINE using the warming variety on my ass, however... We've used the regular K-Y liquid, and it works well, but kinda of burns just a little. The lube in the Kama Sutra product line (it's just a clear, non-flavored one) works well, too.
     
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    It had been a while since we tried it last, due to pregnancy and the way he has been gone alot with the military. But we did give it another shot the other night (Monday I think) Well we had watched an anal porn video and I have found out that with enough lube, I didn't even realize he was in there at first. I mean I felt pressure but I didn't realize he was all the way in. I had given him some pointers before and he just went along with it. Proof that you can teach an old dog new tricks :rofl: Well he isn't really a dog and he is only 30, but ya'll get what I am saying.

    What works for me is that to start out with, he goes down on me, while working his fingers into my ass, one at a time, and just because I may cry out he shouldn't just stop trying. I mean there is that initial feel of pressure, usually mixed with some pain. It may take a while for the feeling that you have to poop to subside, I don't think it ever will truly go away, but after I realize that it is going to be okay, I get more into it.

    That is just me though :wiggle:
     
  25. chlywly

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    awesome; you've all been very helpfull :)
     

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