any tips for girl at gym?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I was out this weekend and met a girl who works at the gym i belong to. Little did i know she liked me, but i never knew it. We were chatting and she tells me she is on the rocks with her bf. I invite her to hang out sometime, but she says she is still with him. I try to talk to her when i leave the gym, but she says she doesn't look good and kind of shy's away from me. I think she has a problem with her confidence, but i want to get to know her somehow .
     
  2. MattThom01

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    Have you read other threads that start out with "she and her bf are on the rocks, but she is still with him"?

    Don't waste your time.
     
  3. BlackIce72

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    :rofl:

    FUCK I knew the first replies would say that

    and i disagree man... everyone's got baggage and issues whether it's not being happy yourself and wanting others to find flaws in others so you don't reach happiness :hsugh:...

    ...or you've just got relationship issues and are scared to end it at the moment
     
  4. MattThom01

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    why exactly does any of that merit him pursuing her? She's still with the bf, even if she's not happy.
     
  5. giz

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    what do you mean by "she likes you"?
     
  6. MattThom01

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    her friends probably told him or something like that.

    I'm being sarcastic, but even if that did happen, it means nothing.
     
  7. uneek

    uneek OT Supporter

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    consider that she's telling the world her personal business. do you want to be with a girl who will tell a complete stranger about her "problems" with you?

    she's gossiping behind her bf's back to anybody who will listen.
     
  8. BlackIce72

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    I'm not judgmental

    and would imagine I'm mature enough to give it a shot and if it doesn't work out then we can always end it

    her rocky relationship is not my issue and I won't pretend to know it... and I definitely won't fucking judge it what-so-ever

    being judgmental is pretty damn unattractive as well in men as well as women
     
  9. giz

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    agreed. I'd probably tell her to look me up when she done dealing with the other guys shit and leave it at that.
     
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    If you want an easy lay take advantage of her weak self-confidence by attacking her looks. If you want to get to know her I'd do something friendly like coffee and keep it simple until the bf blows over which will take too long for you to wait out so.... I'd just slay it.
     
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    try posting this in F&N
     
  12. Potski

    Potski what?

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    limit contact and forget about her until she's single
     
  13. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You are the rule, not the exception. Yes, someone somewhere was in your situation once and made it work and lived happily ever after. You will not. The reality of the situation is she has a fucking boyfriend and if you actually could steal her away, that would just mean she isn't worth stealing. Leave it be.
     
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    Dule, bail.

    Not gonna get you any where.
     
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    no gym for home?
     
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    how about you tell him how to pick up chicks at the gym? :mamoru:
     
  17. BlackIce72

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    :rofl:
     
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    I so saw that coming lol.
     

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