any ideas for a second date?

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  1. operationrob

    operationrob OT Supporter

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    went out yesterday, went mini golfing, ate, and then watched a movie at her place. any suggestions about what to do today?
     
  2. Yail Bloor

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    thats pretty quick for a second date

    I recommend limiting your time together in the beginning

    Right now, you like her so much that you aren't concerned with maintaining your separate life and freedom.

    But if you see her all the time from the start, she isn't going to understand when you want to do things separate from her in the future.

    Second date should be next week.
     
  3. ^^^^

    Motion for a sticky.
     
  4. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    what are your goals with her. do you want an exclusive relationship? do you want to fuck her as soon as possible and then determine the future from there? Do you want to continue screening her and see if she is exclusive material, and then maybe be exclusive. Do you want to begin a non-exclusive relationship? Do you want her to be the newest addition to your house of ill repute? do you want to have sex with her so that you can then convince her to tape it and make money off the royalties....

    you have to give a bit more info bro
     
  5. MattThom01

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    you maybe don't have to wait a week, but at least wait 2 days or so...I mean come on, it's the weekend. I'm sure she wants the opportunity to do stuff with her friends, as do you.
     
  6. Falconer

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    True. I found that one out first hand.
     
  7. operationrob

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    ended up seeing her again yesterday :o . i'll give it a week or so before i see her again.
     
  8. iceman1123

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    ABORT ABORT

    you dont need consecutive dates
     
  9. operationrob

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    i think i might have a class four clinger on my hands :uh::doh:

    she keeps asking me to go to her games :hsugh:, i've only seen her twice!
     
  10. Atheist

    Atheist oh, hi OT Supporter

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    You must be young?
     
  11. operationrob

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    :werd: 17 FTW!!/FTL on occasions
     
  12. Hawkal

    Hawkal dammit,wtf? OT Supporter

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    Gaaaah, that's where I screwed up.
     
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    Your first date was way over the top, IMO. It should have been a coffee/pastry/dessert or something else small and simple. The goal would be to simply sit and talk to her, and get to know each other. Now she potentially sees you as a great source of entertainment - movies, golf, etc... How are you going to afford to keep that up?

    A second date could be a walk in the park, day on the beach, PB&J's on a hill, or something else simple.
     
  14. Lateralus

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    Are you two seeing each other school every day, or do you go to different schools? You're too young to be worrying about being in a serious relationship, but I do agree with everyone else here when it comes to putting some distance between the two of you. If you're spending every single day with her, it's going to show her that you're putting everything else in your life on hold for her, and she'll eventually walk all over you.
     
  15. Abomb

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    go to bar with said girl
    have drinks with said girl
    invite said girl back to your apartment for more drinks
    sexorsz.
    passed out drunken sleep.
     
  16. operationrob

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    we're from different towns. i havent seen her since sunday.
     
  17. Abomb

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    long distance, abort
     
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    you are very wise
     
  19. operationrob

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: oh noes! having to drive 10 minutes vs. five!
     
  20. Abomb

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    abort!!!
     
  21. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    To his defense, you didn't say how far away the two towns were. :fawk:
     
  22. Abomb

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    :bigthumb:
     

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