or atleast fanstasize about things like that?? i used to cheat on my girl alot, sometimes 3somes, me a friend and another girl type of things alot. lately i dont want to cheat anymore and doing it with my girl has been a big fantasy for me for a long time. it took 3 years of me trying to get her to do it (shes not slutty at all) but we did it once and it was awsome. anyone else into shit like this???