SRS another ex issue v. she won't go away

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  1. Los

    Los Active Member

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    No matter what I say or tell her she won't stop. :eek3:

    But she doesn't contact me as much.

    Anyway, she tells me tonight that she's having some medical issues (attached ovaries, cysts, stuff like that) and is hurt. I sympathize with her and wish her well, though in my typical sarcastic remarks.

    But why does she keep telling me these things? It just doesn't make sense. Tonight she even said she wasn't getting over me (thankfully, my healing process is complete so I'm fine) but it bothers me that she keeps talking to me, wanting to have some intimate conversation when she's with someone. :ugh: Regardless of the fact he's a pansy and is beyond stupid, I can't help but to feel that if I did move back, I'd have a basketcase in my hands.
     
  2. Stilgar1973

    Stilgar1973 New Member

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    You would have a basketcase if you moved back.
    Period.

    Some people can detach themselves and remain friends.
    Some people cannot.
    She cannot.

    You need to do it for her.
    Just tell her to go away and leave you alone.
    If you feel you need to piss her off for her to stay away, then piss her off.
     
  3. Los

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    Oh werd. :eek3:
     
  4. OoOlAlA

    OoOlAlA New Member

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    Hmm..Maybe she just wants support from someone she knows well and doesnt feel she can get the comfort feeling from her boyfriend that she thinks/knows she can get from you.........she could also be crazy and bothering you though. Either one.
     
  5. pigeon

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    if i were you, i'd just not answer phone calls, emails, knocking on the door, whatever. it's not healthy for either one of you for this girl to keep doing this. can you just completely ignore her?
     

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