Another date

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  1. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    Met a girl on Saturday night, had a fun time at the party. told her we should hangout, got her number. She was getting a beer for her sister, my roomate told her he wouldn't give her a beer unless she called me/hung out with me, she said she would if she had my number :rofl:

    i ended up texting her a day later so she'd have my number, something like "and here's that number" and she replied "good cause i wanted it."

    fast forward to last night, we went out to get coffee, then came back and hung out at my place...

    girl has a lot of problems. her last relationships were all fail, were all long distance, she said she'd never want to do that again. she's very nihilist, pretty emo about things, seems to have a lot of barriers built up.

    We kissed a bit here and there, she told me she's not used to guys making the first move (what does this mean? has she been dating losers?)

    I told her i'd like to see her again, she said "...that can be arranged."

    :dunno:

    She's damn cute and i dig that, but I just dunno..
     
  2. teep

    teep New Member

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    failed long distance relationships doesn't really sound like much baggage to me at all. maybe once you get past that initial barrier things will be much different. maybe not :dunno:

    that's why you date. you try to figure all that shit out to see if it's worth pursuing.

    she's obviously not all that guarded though if she's coming over and being all kissy with you.
     
  3. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    There's definitely something burried in there that reaks of fail, don't know what it is :dunno:

    I just don't want to get caught up on her, but a part of me is psyched that she's completely 180 from who I usually date so it's..interesting.
     
  4. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    No clue. That is a really odd comment.

    Regardless, set the stage early that you DO make the moves. Otherwise if she becomes the "leader" you won't be able to get that position back. Relationship norms are established early on and are almost impossible to change later.
     
  5. Joshua

    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    Broseph, this is not heavy baggage. If you dig her roll with it. Don't sweat it, you're going to always find baggage of some sort and this is little baggage. If she starts screaming her dads name during sex, okay, come back, we'll talk about getting out this one.
     
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    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    Going through that right now and its awesome.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Seems like you two are clicking brosef.

    Just do work, play it how you have been, seems like between you and your buddies the game is smooth.
     
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    Wouldn't you consider any past relationships "failed"?
     
  9. knucks

    knucks Active Member

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    Yeah but that's because I've ended them..so I was on the other end :dunno:
     
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    dont think its that big of a deal you had a good time right?
     
  11. Dahlia

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    I would say see how it pans out. It's not like you are totally committed to this girl. Hang out a few more times, see what what happens.
     

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