another break up thread v.hold me :mad:

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  1. Kev07

    Kev07 New Member

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    more blogging than anything else

    iwywb is probably gona hit everything on the head if she reads this with the blunt "you knew this was gonna happen" :rofl:

    was in a very complicated LDR <---warning sign already

    i felt very unhappy because
    1. she was not making me feel special and all that emo shit, like i was there on the side until she finds someone else
    2. because of 1, i found it really hard to treat her well like i want to
    3. i am unhappy

    so i called her and told her how i felt ^, and she pretty much just said it should end then and im like k just wanted to hear your thoughts before i said it.

    then she gets all rawrawr on the phone because i made her come out of a bar to talk to her, when what really happened was:
    1. icall her and ask if she's busy
    2. she says shes in a bar
    3. i tell her oh okay just call me when you're done then
    4. she asked if its important
    5. i told her kinda but just call me afterwards
    6. she steps outside and starts talking to me

    We argue for a bit and she tells me to shut the fuck up and i calmly tell her "Name refrained, you are being a bitch right now"

    and she hung up on me


    let the :wtc: begin
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Even if you guys weren't about to break up, that right there is break up territory (assuming you weren't being a dick in the first place).

    Consider everything a learning experience.

    "Complicated" relationships are bad.

    Not feeling special is bad.

    You can usually tell when you're just being kept "around" until someone better comes along.

    :hug:



    Now make a long post listing all the things you hated about her. It will make things easier :big grin:
     
  3. Kev07

    Kev07 New Member

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    that was the first time she said it actually :dunno:, she might have been tipsy too, overall shes a pretty emotional/angry girl so :o

    other than that, you're pretty spot on :o

    not sure if i wana make that long post yet, but i know for a fact there are way more cons than pros :o
     
  4. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Sounds like good riddance

    Good. Sounds like your logical brain knows this was the best thing to do... it will just suck for awhile until the emotional side of your brain catches up.
     
  5. Kev07

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    i was :420: last night :mamoru:

    i wouldn't really say i feel sad right now, empty might describe it better
     
  6. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    It's for the better bro. [​IMG]
     
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    Move on. Next woman..preferably local.
     
  8. Kev07

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    easier said than done :o

    but im workin on it.
     
  9. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    she was treating you like a door mat, how can you miss her?. She gave you shit for being at a bar like she was at some astro physics invite only convention.
     
  10. Kev07

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    well this was all pretty recent, we had a pretty good thing going before.

    but i wouldn't really say i miss her, and if i did i'm pretty sure its just cause i have no other SO in my life right now and i miss that
     
  11. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    Good riddance. And if you can do it once, you can probably do it again. :)
     
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  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :wavey: :rofl:

    i usually get over shit by forcing myself to shift my emotions into hate/dislike "she's a bitch"

    dont feel like doing that this time
     
  15. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    worst is when they yell and insult you leaving you all confused and then the next day they say they are sorry thinking everything will be cool again :rofl:
     
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