SRS Anonymous Thread: Girlfriend's Fantasy

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  1. Throwdown

    Throwdown whore destroyer

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    Starts with.....I was drunk and a little bared out on saturday and went to a little party at a friend's house with my girlfriend and friends. The party got a little rowdy and I told my girlfriend to kiss this other girl that wanted to kiss her. She refused at the time, but little did I know it would come to haunt me. I don't know why I asked her, maybe for a test? I do know I hate attention whoring girls that do the same thing and would get upset at her for following through but I did still ask her. 2 days later in the afternoon, while i was pre-occupied with something on the computer she kept asking me questions while grabing my dick. Asking me if I would like to see her with a girl and if that would turn me on. I was busy with something and a little weirded out by the questioning cause I thought she was tricking me so I didn't give a straight answer. I just kept asking her questions like, "Would you like that? WOuld it turn you on? YOu want to lick another girl?". SHe kept getting hornier and saying "yes i wanna see your face when you are turned on". So fast forward to that night when we are having sex she gets into this fantasy again and starts describing what she would want to do w/ the girl. At first she was talking about licking her pussy and clit and then having the girl eat her out, describing to me in detail. AND then it progressed to her saying, "And then i want you to fuck the girl and see the look on her face while you give her pleasure". I was in shock at this point and got her to keep talking by playing along where she continued to talk about me fucking another girl while that girl would eat my gf out. At this point my heart starts caving in and I see how far this fucked up maze is by continuing to play along. I say, "what if we went to a swingers club and we switched couples". At first she was precocious while i described how i would fuck this other imaginary girl while she was getting fucked. And all she would say is "yahhh". When I asked her directly if she would like getting fucked by this other dude she would say "noo i only want you but i want to see u fuck a girl and then eat her out". One last weird fucked up thing that happened was while she was really working herself up and getting horny she said, "i want to see the other guy suck you dick too". I quickly stopped the game at that point and said we aren't opening that door and she went back to her girl fantasy. At this point I wasn't turned on anymore and quickly got her to bust a nut and then finally busted mine.

    Now this all would definately not be a problem if I wasn't serious with this girl. We plan on marrying in the distant future and at the present moment spend tons of time together. I just feel in a healthy relationship, one person in the couple would definately not want to see the other get fucked by someone else regardless of sex. Also shes from a divorced family where the dad would beat her mom. I wonder if this has anything to do with it cause I do notice she strives for attention from men because of it.

    Does anyone have any opinions on what is going on? Mental disorder, tired of me, guilty about fuckin someone else, or am i just over reacting?
     
  2. Bleed

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    dude you are living every mans fantasy. you realize you could technically have a 3-some for the rest of your life. please do not waste this opportunity for all men across america. take one for the team!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  3. tris

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    :werd: I think you're nuts to refuse this offer.

    However, if your heart's just not there, then you need to pass that generous slut on to a more appreciative soul. . .
     
  4. dave steel

    dave steel My Kung Fu is the best.

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    Open relationships don't work, what you have with her will self-destruct under such a scenario. I think it's starting to dawn on you that she might turn out to be promiscuous now and through any "so called" marriage, and that's not what you want. Still, her whole reason for all of this might be that she just wants to please you. Ask her that if actually you were only interested in her and didn't want anyone else in the relationship, how would she feel about that.
     
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    have to agree with my man here

    3somes are fine if you don't plan on going anywhere with the person, but if you're planning on marriage and whatnot, then it goes a little deeper than sex, and thats all a threesome can be. You cannot build a solid, deep union with two people, only with one
     
  6. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    I've seen married couples who love to invite an 'extra' partner in, what does come looking around the corner is jelousy , i've seen the girls become jelouse , so only a strong relationship between the two of you could withstand such a thing, along with mutual acceptance of this situation. I do think that the ties become less bonding, you know i mean when your on that church altar saying yes to eachother, i imagine that other girl also standing next to you, gosh things would get so blurry. I know for sure i wouldn't want that. I would commit myself to one girl = end of story. Go for security if you want my advice. Stick with 1 chick.
     
  7. JordanClarkson

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    It depends on what you want with a specific person. I think it's really easy to swing with someone you've just met, but when you've already built up expectations in someone that you've known for awhile, a change in their personality can really crush you. It doesn't sound like this is what you truly want with her.
     
  8. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    I agree with everyone else on here. Threesomes are for casual relationships, not serious things. If it is her fantasy, talk dirty to her about it/ play along. But if she starts asking seriously, that is when you should probably worry about it. Hell, my fantasies involve all sorts of freaky shit (lol, no pun intended) but that doesn't mean I am going to act on them. Well, I might, but most of them I wouldn't...
     
  9. Peyomp

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    You are over-reacting. She is expressing perfectly normal, healthy fantasies. Whether you act on them is your business. If you're not comfortable, thats fine: don't act on them. That doesn't mean you can't talk about them, though. Remember: you did open the door, and you did encourage her to keep talking about it. Frankly... it sounds like you're a bit too immature to be contemplating marriage, if this kinda thing freaks you out as much as it does.
     
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    I would not want a guy to suck me off... I don't care how bad a girl wanted to see it.
     
  11. Peyomp

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    So what? You don't have to DO that shit. Its just something that she talked about, a common fantasy in fact, after he invited her to do so. You can't be up tight about this shit if you're going to explore the realm of fantasy.

    Sounds like you're not ready to even talk openly about the darker corners of your sexuality, so you shouldn't be inviting her to do so: you can't handle it.
     
  12. Peyomp

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    P.S. Roti sucks. Naan is the bomb.
     
  13. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    Fixed :o

    Although its a great fantasy and can be great while it lasts... it will only lead to problems later IMO. Question is... is it worth the risk?
     
  14. AntiSocialism

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    I'm a girl. I get jealous. >> << It sounds like she's trying to satisfy YOUR fantasy or what she thinks turns you on. Talk to her about it, hmm? If she's worried about it, reassure her.

    Peyomp: :bowdown: I adore your advice.
     
  15. punkerjim

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    three somes are good and all but not with someone you're planning on marrying.
     

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