SRS Anonymous Thread: Feeling detached from my girlfriend

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  1. Throwdown

    Throwdown whore destroyer

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    I swear I thought I found the perfect girl. We've been good friends ever since I've helped her through some "drama" about a friend of mine she liked for the past few years . Then a few months later, we hooked up and life was great . But this time, I didn't feel the great affection I felt with crushes. I felt... I don't know... detached some how. We do a lot of the couple stuff, like celebrating our first month, going out on dates, and whatnot, but I don't really feel anything at all. I expected to be enraptured in love, but I feel this relationship has failed to meet my expectations. But I still won't break up with her, it's not that bad at all. It's just she seemed so perfect for me, but how come I don't feel such deep affection for her?

    It seems like a lot of nonsensical twittering .
     
  2. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    If you don't get out of it, you're cheating yourself; that's not fair to you.
     
  3. Jay Pheezy

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    Hmm.. that happens sometimes. Can't tell you why, but it does. I'm with Blazin.. I don't see why you wouldn't get out of it. You probabbly should.
     
  4. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    Agreed, stop lying to yourself and to her. End the relationship,and find someone who you 'connect' to. Looks aren't everything, characterwhise there must be a bond too.
     
  5. Skeletor

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    The longer you go on in the relationship the more attached she may get to you, so when you've had enough of it, breaking up with her may be a very devastating blow and could potentially harm her much worse than if you were to do it now.
     

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