background info: i'm 30, have been married 10 years to my wife and mother of our 2 sons. she has been my only serious relationship since we started dating in high school when we were both 16 yrs old. the last few years have found us drifting somewhat apart in the natural ebb and flow of relationships. for the past several months (6 mon) i've been getting very close emotionally to a young woman (23 yrs old) that i work with and see fairly regularily. she knows that i am married and there has been no inappropriate physical contact between us yet. i find myself thinking about her very often and lately our conversations have steered toward the possiblity of messing around physically. incidently, my relationship with my wife has been getting much better over the course of these few months. i feel like i'm paying a lot more attention to her and meeting her needs in the right way now, just generally being a better husband... it probably comes from a subconcious guilt. i know what i should do so this isn't really an advice seeking sort of post but more of a confessional. i really love my wife and i'm committed to her but i've also found room in my heart for this other woman as well. am i crazy or is it possible to love two women at once?