Anonymous User Post: Am i ready yet ? history, goes I got dumped by my ex of many years about three months ago or so. Been hanging out with a great woman, once a week for the past 2 months. We'll tonight we talked and I let her know I was starting to devolop feeling for her beyond a friendship. So heres the thing. This isn't one of the women you want passing through, not like flings and such. we get along great, laugh all the time together....I just don't know if i'm ready to get in a relationship. Which happens to be the reason she was holding back when we first met, , Which is something we talked about tonight .....along with the other problem that her best friend (female), happens to be a family memeber. Who we also hang out with alot. so where gonna go out again and take it from there, atleast we know where we both stand.... But like i said, how do i know if i'm ready.