I made the mistake of trying to salvage a relationship one last time yesterday by talking to her about the problems .. see thread http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=1906474 Not thinking it was possible, she managed to make me feel 100x worse then b4. It wasnt just the things she said, its how she said them. She really doesnt give a shit about me at all. She'd like to have me around, but on her terms only, and just everynow and then. I kept my cool with her , but I opted to keep some self-respect and told her to have a good life and adios. This chick dugg into me pretty deep over the last few years. More then any other gf has. She was with me through some tough times. But towards the end I put up with alot more than anyone should. Now that i know its definatley over for good, I have alot of hurt and anger. I have the urge to trash, break, tear up anything i have linked with her... Pictures, cards & other random stuff that reminds me of her or from her. I've never felt that destructive need with previous breakups.. so far i've stopped myself from trashing anything. I know she couldnt care less and I'm just hurting myself.. Any of you guys get like this, how did u deal with the anger?