SRS Annoying Neighbor

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  1. Don Ganja

    Don Ganja Drunk Driving > *

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    I've never disliked this dude until recently. I love people and I always have friends over at my apartment. I leave the door open because I welcome neighbors just stopping by, having some drinks and chillin. But this guy is comming over more and more frequently, staying longer and longer, belching, farting, asking millions of dumb questions. If it comes down to it, I may have to just flat out tell him that I dont like him and he's not welcome anymore, but he is chill in small doses and I dont really hate him. Id rather not be a complete asshole to the guy, so im wondering if anybody has any suggestions on how to cut down his visits from everyother day to everyother week.

    Or should I just tell him to fuck off?
     
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    Tell him not now you're busy, he has his own apartment let him know that he doesn't live with you and can't just hang around there all day whenever he feels like. If he's the type of person who has no life and will bug you without end even after you talk to him about it then tell him you don't have time or room in your life for another buddy. Or you can be a dick to him, whatever's your style man people tell others to fuck off in their own way whether nice or not so just do what you're most comfortable with or what you think would work the best.
     
  3. Don Ganja

    Don Ganja Drunk Driving > *

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    its hard to tell him im busy when im playing beer pong with 5 other people
     
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  5. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Close the door to your apartment, LOL
     
  6. Don Ganja

    Don Ganja Drunk Driving > *

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    closing the door dont work. he'll sit there and ring the doorbell forever. especially if he hears people having fun inside. im pretty sure there is not going to be a beautiful solution to this.
     
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    If he is sitting there ringing the door bell go an anwser it. If he asks if he can come in tell him its something your doing with some close buddies and right now isn't a good time. After you do this a few times he may go away but if he continues then straight out tell him he's being a dick as you've tried to be nice but now GTFO.
     
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    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    So just tell him your busy with other people and you can't hang out right now. After you blow him off a couple of times, he should get the hint.
     
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    this is the solution. You don't have to be an asshole about it.

    Smile. Say love to bro, but can't right now...catch ya later. SMILE. Be cool about it.

    Then, SHUT THE DOOR.

    Repeat as necessary. He'll get it.
     
  11. Don Ganja

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    cool thanks ot. next time he comes over, especially if other people are over, im just gonna tell him now is not the time. but im still leaving my door open.
     
  12. teo

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    So he's going to walk in and sit down, and you're going to haul him back up and escort him out? How is this better than stopping him at your door?

    Closed door = physical barrier. Easier to enforce.
     
  13. Swerve

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    But by saying it, he will get the message, without you having to tell him to fuck off like you say.

    Make yourself say it to him, your doing both of you a favour by doing so.
     
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    Leave the door closed, teach the people you actually want to visit a secret knock. When he rings the door bell, go to the door and say "That's not the secret knock. You fucking fail." and slam the door in his face.
     
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    Fuck that is passive aggressive, and horrible advice.

    Just tell him you enjoy hanging out, but lately it's been too often. There, was that hard? Also, lock your damn door.
     
  17. uptown josh

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    lmao I find this very funny for some reason.

    Updates???
     
  18. Don Ganja

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    haha yeah update. i very politely told him to fuck off. i think it was very polite. im not sure. might have been almost polite. haven't seen him in a while though. lookin good. and my door is still open.
     
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    Nice going man!!
     

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