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  1. Falconer

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    Things women think are sexy vs. things men think are sexy.

    Cliffs: Hey women, don't wear that super-sticky lip gloss shit. It's fucking nasty and we hate it. Not to mention if we do kiss you, it comes off on us and then we have sparkly sticky shit on our lips.





    The entire article is here: http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/loveandromance/articlerb.aspx?cp-documentid=7074860
     
  2. demosnat

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    Rich sounds like my boyfriend ( a photographer) he's most attracted to me when I first wake up, in cotton stripe undies, socks, and a tank top, no makeup/jewelry, and hair all messy
     
  3. Falconer

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    Messy morning (or post-sex) hair is fucking sexy on a woman.
     
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    yes, my fb was asking me wtf people give her so much more attention when she's just been working out and has NO make-up on and is wearing shitty gym clothes.

    the only time dressing up is hot is when it makes the girl look more naked.
     
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    Never underestimate the power of scent :naughty:
     
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    you are pushing an open door on that one

    i like the way Emily smells after physical exertion

    "like" being a euphemism for "love & become erect because of"
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

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    See, what bothers me is that while I have read that same kind of thing from men many times ("I love my girlfrend when she's just in pj's and no makeup"), there is always that insane amount of men who seek out those women who are constantly trying to be "perfect." Wearing "fuck me" stilettos and dressed to the nines at all times.

    Falconer, you yourself have always commented on women posted who are dressed to the nines. I especially remember that one picture of the 3 girls walking down the street wearing super-tight dresses, high heels, expensive purses on arm, etc. etc.

    I can't ever see you being attracted to a girl who was just in casual clothes. Then again, maybe being initially attracted to someone and being with someone for years is a different thing.
     
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    iwywb,

    do NOT listen to guys regarding how to attract guys. i perceive certain things but do i know wtf actually works?

    well let's see, have i spent my life being consciously aware of how to attract the men in my life? negative.

    we don't listen to girls regarding how to attract girls. and there's a good reason for that.
     
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    i think that has to be it.

    for example, i like my SO best when he has just woken up and looks all sleepy and isnt wearing his glasses. seeing someone out on the street like that wouldnt necessarily grab my attention, i like that look on him for different reasons. the reasons being because i am the only one who sees him like that first thing in the morning. i am the only one who sees him without his glasses on (for the record, i LOVE boys in glasses, i go for the nerdy look) so its a special piece of him that only i get.

    maybe its something similar that guys subconciously think about when they see their ladies in the morning with no make up and completely natural
     
  10. JordanClarkson

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    I love that look because there's a quality of intimacy about it. But sometimes if that's all you see, then your gf puts on makeup and she looks amazing, that can be a huge turn on as well.
     
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    I love when my bf has no gel in his hair, is wearing a backwards baseball cap, basketball shorts, a crappy tee and hasn't shaved (yes, he can vouch for this :mamoru:). It's the best. Then again I liked when he looked like that when we were first dating :dunno: I just prefer low-key guys. He knows I love it but he'll still shave and get his nice expensive clothes on :wtc:
     
  12. Falconer

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    I remember that pic.

    Beautiful women are allowed to dress up, too :)

    Beauty is beauty. When I'm at my gf's place and we're just relaxing she'll wear like yoga pants and a tank top or something, and she still looks hot.
     
  13. Falconer

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    My gf says the same thing about me (the no-gel-looking-super-lazy thing).

    In fact, we had a conversation about it once. It went something like this.

    Her: I love your hair when there's no gel in it.

    Me:
    Seriously?

    Her:
    Yeah!

    Me:
    Uh... I hate it. I look like a little 10 year old boy with my soft, poofy hair.

    Her:
    It's so cute!

    Me:
    It looks horrible. I would never go out in public like that.

    Her:
    Well I wouldn't go out in public like that, either.

    Me:
    wtf I thought you just said it looked good :squint: Now you're admitting it doesn't look good by stating that you wouldn't go out in public like that.

    Her:
    I like it cuz I get to see you that way and no one else does.

    Me: Nice save... :squint: :squint: :squint: :squint: :squint:

    And then I felt insecure because I felt that because she looks good without any makeup and without any preparation, objectively she should be with a guy who also looks good (ie. good enough to go out in public) without any preparation (ie. someone who doesn't have little boy hair).
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :eek3: The part I bolded is practically verbatim how our talk goes (and yes, it's been brought up more than once)...but I :rofl: at the rest. And you are still in your head with insecure thoughts :nono:
     
  15. Falconer

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    I agree. However, I would bet that men would be able to give a more accurate answer about what they want than women are able to give about what they want.

    For example, men would probably say "I want a hot chick who is good in bed." That's pretty accurate in most cases.

    Women say "I want a sensitive guy who is sweet and funny and nice" or whatever, and we all know how inaccurate that is.
     
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    oh faloncer, what other other fashion tips can you give me?



    cliffs: females dont dress up for guys. lol.
     
  17. Jacy

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    my boyfriend is empathetic, romantic, funny, and nice :p
     
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    Yeah, thats what bf always says 'no one else gets to see you this way, unless its because you're about to destroy'
     
  19. Falconer

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    Three main ones:

    1. Don't wear sticky lip gloss.

    2. Don't wear that body lotion shit with sparkles in it, and if you do, especially don't put it on your breasts (unless you're a Freshman in college).

    3. Don't do that shit to your lips that makes it look like you outlined your lips with a sharpie.

    You missed the point of the article.
     
  20. Falconer

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    Is "destroy" slang for something?
     
  21. Falconer

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    Hopefully you know what I mean. I'm sure your boyfriend also has a backbone and isn't a gigantic pussy, which is why you are attracted to him.
     
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    Nope, i generally sleep until the literal last second before I have to get up and go. If anyone ever (besides bf) sees me just woken up, its because:

    a. they woke me up with music/stupidity of some sort (destroy)
    b. i'm late, and they're waking me up to inform me (less destruction)
     
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    My g/f has class earlier than I, so she'll get up a bit before I do. When she does god I LOVE watching her get out of bed in just her little undies and a t-shirt with messy hair, sleepy eyes, and a little smile on her face.

    She also rarely wears makeup, which was something that I noticed when we were first getting to know each other, and something that attracted me to her even more.
     
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    Not at all.

    We would be 100% accurate, just as they are.

    They want a confident guy, we want a hot girl who's good in bed.

    That tells us nothing whatsoever of value, however, and tells them nothing.
     
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    haha I like/agree with this thread. Girls in sweatpants and tshirts are a turn on for me.
     

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