SRS And now I'm single

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  1. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Fuck. Suggestions on how to stay sane? Please? :wtc:
     
  2. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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  3. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    Just seconding this statement. Go out and find some hobbies. Yes it's hard, but most of us have done it. You can do it too, just go find some shit you like and start making goals for yourself and get back into yourself. Rather than being into two people.
     
  4. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I agree with the previous posters. Get involved in something. Reconnect with old friends. I used break ups as time to really improve myself. I worked out more often, spent more time with friends I hadn't seen, took a photography class, and got to do some traveling I'd been putting off. Keep yourself busy and concentrate on yourself and the things you want to do with your life. Be open to new people but don't just go prowling for a new girlfriend. The worst thing you can do is sit home and dwell on it.
     
  5. PlayForBlood

    PlayForBlood The rules, rules don't apply to you. You're specia

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    stay busy, work out

    meet new people
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: Breakups are a great time to really take a look at your life and figure out what you want and how to get it. Relationships take up a lot of time so once you're free of them you have more time to focus on yourself and your life.

    I know it's hard but try not to sit around and be depressed all the time. Spend a little time here and there being sad and reflecting on things but really try to go out and meet new people and find new hobbies and things to keep you busy.
     
  7. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    This song just came on and reminded me of this thread :) I always liked this as a breakup song :wiggle: No matter how you feel about her now the truth is you really don't NEED her and you can always find someone better.

    Less Than Jake-Great American Sharpshooter

    So you think of what it couldve been
    When time is al youve lost
    Keeps burning through your head and
    Now you fall asleep standing but lie
    Awake in bed watch the clock drag on
    And think about what you shouldve said

    Its for the better
    Your better half is gone.
    Its ok - you didnt need her anyway.
    And I dont want to hear you say
    Nobody can take her place
    And what more can I say-
    You didnt need her anyways.

    So you think of how it shouldve been
    And its just over
    Keeps going through your head.
    Youre hearing all those words time & time again
    Watch the phone all night
    And think about what you shouldve said

    Its for the better your better half is gone.
     
  8. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    Take up a hobby. Get a motorcycle, lol.
     

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