Analyze this.

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  1. Zackkahry

    Zackkahry New Member

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    So I've been seeing this girl for a good while now, and we haven't had sex yet.

    When we first started dating, she told me that the last guy she saw was basically with his ex the whole time and she was really hurt, so she didn't want to have sex for a while. She said we should wait a month or two.

    Having recently broke up with my ex, understood that I was telling her basically he same shit that he was, so I kinda 'got' where she was coming from.

    We were supposed to go out friday, but I pulled an all nighter thursday night so i just stayed in and slept, she went out with her friends. Yesterday she seemed pissed at me, so I went over to her place to talk.

    She said she didn't want to have sex, and didnt know when she would want to, so she wouldnt be mad if i wanted to see other people.


    My first thought was that she probably hooked up with some guy when she went out with her friends, and was now pushing me away. Or maybe she's just losing interest. Either way, I don't really know how to take this.

    Not to mention that, per the recent anonomous post, my last relationship was kinda fucked up because i have a huge sex drive and she does not. I don't want to get into another relationship where this is the case.

    Thoughts? I dont want to walk just because she doesnt want to have sex at the moment, but at the same time I dont want to get into another relationship with vastly different sex drives.
     
  2. fluentinsilence

    fluentinsilence New Member

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    You already have vastly different sex drives. This girl is damaged goods.
     
  3. D7

    D7 OT Supporter

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    Then walk for the other reasons you posted
     
  4. Troy

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    She's testing you..Don't make a big deal over it and she will likely have her legs spread as wide as the Grand Canyon pronto! The more you make women (most) think you not really sexually interested for some reason they get this uncontrollable urge to bang your brains out.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Move on man. You've written how many threads about this girl in the very short time you've been dating? It's not worth all this.
     
  6. BlackIce72

    BlackIce72 New Member

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    You were supposed to go out on a Friday but you bailed.

    Incidentally my best friend (a girl) called me very angry about the same situation a couple weeks ago. Some people just don't stand for being flaky and shit. Maybe she's one of them. She has a right to be pretty pissed even if you have a good reason.

    Try to get shit going with her again but if it's not working then focus your attention elsewhere.

    It's always worth giving it to give it one more shot. But you need to be far more objective.
     
  7. Zackkahry

    Zackkahry New Member

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    I'm dating several girls, this is the first thread I've made about this one :o
     
  8. Zackkahry

    Zackkahry New Member

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    I kind of agree.
     
  9. TriPinTaZ

    TriPinTaZ !!!.!!!.!!!!.U.U.!!!!.U.! !!!! WTF?

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    shes probably smarter then you and already thinks you're a man whore.
     
  10. snoodles

    snoodles New Member

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    girls. you can't live with them, and they can't pee standing up.


    j/k...but seriously.

    i vote you move on.
     
  11. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

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    Shes an idiot. Find a new girl.
     
  12. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    To much unnecessary baggage, I would move on, or just keep her as a friend.
     
  13. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    This. This is truth

    Just get her massively aroused through play and then never follow through

    But only do this if you are a masochist and want to be in a clusterfuck

    Otherwise walk away
     
  14. GammaRadiation

    GammaRadiation Active Member

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    1.) She's playing games. I dont like games, do you like games?

    2.) She's looking to move on.

    Your two options.
     
  15. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Option 1: She's playing serious games and is just going to keep playing games. If you stay don't expect this to change.
    Option 2: She has serious emotional baggage that keeps her from being comfortable with intimacy. Don't expect this to change either.
    Option 3: Get the fuck out while you still can.
     
  16. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    shes either playing games or wants to break it off with you but doesnt have the guts to outright say it

    move on and find a chick that wants to bang you
     
  17. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Girls will say all sort of shit that sounds like they are telling you something, but are actually trying to convince themselves. If you cant close on her in the amount of time you are comfortable with, move on.
     
  18. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Low interest. Move on.

    A chick who has high interest in you will never tell you it's ok for you to see other people (unless you have some open relationship or something).
     
  19. TheWeasel

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    DOT
     

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