so there's this girl i know from highschool who goes to my university. i'm a 4th year she's a 2nd. she's like my ex's best friend. we've been hanging out recently. sometimes with a lesbian (wingman?) friend of her's or sometimes by ourselves. like the other day i went over to her place to watch a movie, but we ended up sleeping in her bed, nothing happened. we only had like 1 shot of cognac (i wanted to see what all the hippity hop people were talking about). but the thing is she always talks about other guys in front of me. some girls i've talked to say maybe she's trying to make me jealous. i don't know. i just wanna know which ladder i'm on so i can stop wasting my time or not.