Analyze this situation for me.

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  1. Loomster

    Loomster New Member

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    So I hooked up with this girl last monday, hung out a few more times. The girl was really clingy, constantly calling me and texting me wanting to hang out, and crazy stuff like "I'm glad I finally found someone to make me smile for no reason".

    Wasn't really for me, I found her kinda annoying. She called me today asking to hang out, and I told her, "Hey, I don't really wanna date you or anything, I'll probably cya around."

    I just kinda feel like an asshole, I've never had to do that before.... Am I a dick or does this happen from time to time?
     
  2. Ari1979

    Ari1979 New Member

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    :dunno: you handled it perfectly. You were honest and fair. It's only been a week and i'm sure she will get over it quickly. Nothing else to say really.
     
  3. demosnat

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    Better something concrete like that, then making her think there's hope and leading her on.
     
  4. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    BTW, expect a lot of "but what did I do!??!!?" calls soon.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, good for you! Seriously, so many men/women who are in that position never open their fucking mouth and waste the other person's time. You didn't hold back and were straight up with her though, which will be beneficial for her in the long run. Honestly, go you :bigthumb:
     
  6. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    well i have been on the other side of this too and i assure you being upfront is the best. i am sure her feelings were hurt, but by sat night she will be all good
     
  7. Abomb

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    i think you handled it poorly.. you should have built her self esteem up for another few months before utterly crushing it and using her tears as lube.
     
  8. Elphaba

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    Yup, these are coming.

    Even though you handled it well, not leading her on as others have said, she sounds like the type that could do this. I'd have an answer ready - something just as firm as your first response.
     
  9. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    good luck fucking her again. dumbass. shouldve just said, im busy tonight.
     
  10. tqpolo

    tqpolo ***** Platinum Member OT Supporter

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    lol
     
  11. Mulsanne

    Mulsanne The Man = Funk Fusion Chaos

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    Eh, you probably could have sugarcoated it, but like the saying goes, you can't polish shit.

    You were going to have to tell her something she didnt want to hear either way so at least you got it out.
     
  12. Pringles

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    IMO you handled it poorly because now you can't fuck her ever again. But hey you did the nicer thing by telling her flat out by not wasting her time just you dont get her pussy anymore.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    For all of you men upset he can no longer fuck this girl:
    Grow up. Obviously if he could get this chick all over him he can get another one. She also could've been bad in bed. You're all pretty pathetic if the only thing you can say is "aww man, now you can't have easy poontang." Have some fucking morality, sheesh.
     
  14. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    nothing like a chick you dont give a fuck about. Can do all kind of dirty shit to ..... :kdubb:
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why keep her around, even for sex, if she annoys the living fuck out of him though? Keeping her around if only for sex would make the ending even more frustrating. There is more pussy in the world he can find.
     
  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    well I am evil, soo..... that would just make it a whole lot more fun.
     
  17. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    some people have standards :dunno:
     
  18. demosnat

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    Everyone has standards. Not sharing your standards !=no or low standards.
    There are all types of relationships. I'll never judge consensual sex between two post pubescent people.
     
  19. Loomster

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    hey, thanks for all the responses, made me feel great about the whole thing :)


    Even better, later last night, the chick i'm reaaaaally digging called me, and we are hanging out next week :bigthumb:
     
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    win :)
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I love it :bigthumb:
     

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