analyze me: i'm attracted to people with flaws, like scars or disabilities

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  1. hsugh knight

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    just recently I was at a Starbucks with a friend and we saw a nice looking girl across from us. at first my friend was like :hsugh: and then she turned to smile wide at someone her teef were crooked and he was like :ugh: whereas i was like :hs:

    do i have issues that need to be sorted out?
     
  2. NCS

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    yeah , you prob. do. its biologically normal to be attracted to certain qualities and those are not in them. do you have self esteem issues? is something going on like you feel safer being attracted to girls with flaws because you figure they won't leave you?
     
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    From a psychological standpoint it could be said that you are more attracted or seek out "less than perfect" women with either small or large flaws because you are insecure and it makes you feel more confident.
     
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    Crooked teeth wouldnt be a downfall for me, but certianly isnt a turn on.

    I like birthmarks (moles creep me out though)...and badass scars on girls are just hot
     
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    the imperfections are what make people unique, so I could see how they would catch your eye and make you feel attracted to them
     
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    I want to hear about these "disabilities" you are attracted to...
     
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    Depends on why. Are you attracted to them because you see them as damsels in distress where you can be their knight in shining armor? If so then that's probably a confident/self esteem issue. But that's not that bad as long as you don't fall for the junkies.
     
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    Perhaps you are mature enough to realize that people with physical flaws tend to cultivate other attractive traits like intelligence or sense of humor to make up for that "first impression"?

    (I can say that in this forum without being laughed at, right?)
     
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    Have you ever been with someone with these kinds of 'flaws?' The first person you fall for can have a huge impact on your 'type'
    Do you have any close family thats disabled?
    It doesn't mean you have 'insecurities' there is a reason you think this type makes a better partner for you, you just have to find that reason.
     
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    Japanese people love snaggleteeth. They have a word for it but I forgot. A lot of their models are really cute but they have these crazy snaggle teeth, usually the fangs. They love it!

    edit - it's called "yaeba."

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    i agree with what iwywb said (from a psychological standpoint)

    but other than that, it may be that you find something very intriguing about the flaws/disabilities and you feel you can help that person or make them feel good (well imo)

    I'm the same way too sometimes. although i'm attracted to those with a prosthesis leg :hsd: so odd :o
     
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    Falconer Otaku.
     
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    It drives me insane because she is so hot but I would still hit it as is.
     
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    I like a nice mouth/smile, too.
     
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    That pic I posted isn't even bad. She had like one weird tooth. Some of them have total snaggle tooth of the canines.
     
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    Do you really call them 'teef'? :ugh:
     
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    I am too!! I have to control myself whenever I see them. Its not in a sexual way though, I just get really excited about prosthesis because I want to do work with them.
     
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    I'd definitely say there is something weird about it.. A girl that I'm sort-of-talking-to has some pretty severe burns on her body, and although I'm really attracted to her the scars play no role in it.. I look right past them. She's an extremely confident and successful girl so it doesn't stem from me having self-esteem or confidence issues.
     
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    my buddy sitting next to me was stationed in japan for three years, he said they all have snaggle teeth there:noes:
     

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