i think my girlfriend will finally give anal a try. we've been together for almost a year and i bring it up somewhat frequently but she would get upset cuz she thought thats the only thing that would make me happy with her. we fucked a couple times while i pressed my finger on her butt and she said it felt good the other day while we were fucking doggy style i was doing that then told her i was gonna put some ky on my finger and slowly go in her but i'd pull out right away if it hurt. so i was fucking her doggy style while i was sliding my finger in and out of her ass. afterwards she said she liked it and next time maybe i can use my dick my question tho is when i cum, do i have to pull out or can i cum in her ass? is it bad for her? i really dont wanna wear a condom and we're both disease free but am i suseptable to an infection or something from the bacteria in her ass?