Anal Sex

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  1. moni8a

    moni8a New Member

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    I've been kinda curious to try anal sex with my bf. I've never mentioned it or anything. I'm just a little scared of it hurting and my bf's reaction if I say that I want to have anal sex. Can someone give me some help/advise???
     
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    Falconer OT Supporter

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    You can never use too much lube.

    Go VERY slowly at first. Start with a finger.

    Wear a condom.
     
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    He'll probably be thrilled at the idea. Use lots of lube.
     
  4. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Do a google search for "anal sex FAQ" or something. There's a good one out there.
     
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    Get an enema done before going through with it to help "clear the path".
     
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    Bisexualatina86 New Member

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    I love it!!! But I've always liked pain, just use alot of lubricant and go slow the first time. But it's not for everyone so you might not like it, even later on
     
  7. moni8a

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    Thanks everyone for the help and the advise.
     
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    moni8a New Member

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    That's another thing that I am worried about if I decide to try it. So I guess I'll have to get an enema.
     
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    my girls have never had one and it wasnt bad

    just make sure you dont have to poop. maybe make sure you poop a few hours before
     
  11. BradUF

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    Yeah you don't need one.
     
  12. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Completely unnecessary.

    Use lube, dont be tense, have fun. And tell him to take it really slow at first.
     
  13. GreyRS

    GreyRS Your ignorance cramps my conversation.

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    Tie him to the bed. Have your way with him, but don't let him cum. Ride him reverse co-girl and let some lube dribbled down your ass. Proceed to play with your ass in front of him while sitting on his cock. When you think you are ready, slide off of him and rub the head of his penis on your anus. Apply lube to his cock and more to your ass. Ease on to his cock as slowly or quickly as you can handle. If he tries to push in, just hold him off and tell him you have a handle on things and he is to just lay back and enjoy. From there, I am sure you can finish things.
     
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    The first time I had anal sex, I didnt even give him warning. I was drunk, so I was very relaxed (relaxation is a hugeee plus in lessening pain!). I used spit as lube and just plopped on. If you'd ask me to try that now, I'd probably scream in pain. Lube is definitely your friend. Take control the first time and take your time with it. I doubt he will have a problem with you wanting it!
     
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    go slow...consider working a finger in there before the main event. relax.
     
  16. DurkaDurka

    DurkaDurka God hates me

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    Gonna let us know how it worked out?? :x:
     

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