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  1. Mojo

    Mojo New Member

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    i need ideas on how i can get my woman to enjoy anal sex rather than me just shoving my dick in there. i heard of buttplugs, but is there a natural way to do it? meaning no objects used and whatnot. we used a lot of lube so its not the dryness thats hurting her. so shed some ideas on me on how to let her enjoy anal sex without getting hurt.

    i thought trying it once day slowly would help but she tells me that doesnt stretch it out nor help. she feels the same pain as the day before
     
  2. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Some people just don't enjoy it. Your best bet is to just start small, but she may never be one who wants to be reemed in the ass by your huge cock.
     
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    Does she still want to do it? If not, you are fighting a losing battle and should just stop.

    At least for now :)

    I tried it in my 20's (that would have been the 1980's)-twice. Both times hurt too much to try again.

    Decided to try again in my 40's (same guy, so no difference in cock size) and OMG, it was awesome. I do have to have clitoral stimulation at the same time and some angles hurt so I have to watch out for those.

    Now, I will say size matters, I can't get my pussy or my asshole to accept any big size. There is a limit to skin stretching. And tearing hurts.

    Edit: Let her back up on it and you don't push. She can wiggle on to it so to avoid any ouch spots.
     
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  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Tickle it while she's on top.
     
  8. NCS

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    clitoral stimulation helps

    but for the most part your girl just needs to want to feel dirty like that, and the mental side of it takes care of the rest.
     
  9. D7

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    Why do men insist on labeling anal penetration as a sexual act when the woman is in pain and not enjoying it?

    Why is it not abuse when they have to further convince the woman to participate in future endeavors?

    All y'all have bought way too far into the porn industry.
     
  10. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I agree with all of those points D7
     
  11. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Ts, there are ways to potentially help her enjoy it more IF that's what she wants. Otherwise, back off.
     
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    Do you caress her cheek and coo into her ear while mounting her? If not then you're doing it wrong.
     
  13. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    GODDAMMIT FS :mad::mad::mad::mad:
     
  14. antihero

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    Get them started with a finger in the ass with oral. Once they really come to enjoy that regularly (80%+ enjoy it if done right) you move on to anal sex. It really is about taking your time, starting small, and letting her control the initial penetration.

    sooooo you don't like anal? :sadwavey:
     
  15. martial_tehee

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    Women are responsible for their own sexual pleasure. If a girl I`m with doesn`t know how to enjoy anal, I`m sure not going to find out for her.

    I`m looking elsewhere. And elsewhere does exist. Same hole, different person.
     
  16. martial_tehee

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    And you have bought way too far into feminism. Anal penetration is pleasurable for large numbers of both women and men.
     
  17. D7

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    I didn't state my preferences :rofl:

    I said some very specific things in response to the OP and left it at that. I didn't go into my preferences or even my personal experiences for that matter.

    U mad? I didn't say it isn't pleasurable for some men or some women :hsugh: :gtfo:

    For the record, I fully support consenting adults, but when one party has to coerce the other party, especially when pain is involved, I would argue the line of consent. Consent is not a feminist issue.
     
  18. Sd79

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    How many women had their first penetration vaginally feel awesome with no pain?

    If that is now the norm, it was not for my generation. We were told to expect pain and even blood. Even guys were warned.

    So expecting no pain and super feel good is not the norm with a new activity. But we know figuring out how to get past what hurts to what feels good has been how it worked in the past.
     
  19. Falconer

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    wtf, did guys just put it in and go to town?

    NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE

    POWER BANG
     
  20. Sd79

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    I think it varied a lot Falc, I had friends who pretty much thought doing it fast was the best way but I was in the go slow group. No blood, but still so darn sore and painful in spots, it sure wasn't like I had mind blowing O's over it. In fact neither he nor I came. It was all about getting it in, slowly, then stopping to let me heal.
     
  21. sportsjunkie

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    You have to start slow and it takes time. Tell her to finger herself before you go ramming your dick in there. Ten use your finger/toys and try lube

    But if she says it hurts and Shenis uncomfortable, then back off
    The asshole is technically an exit only so of course it is going to hurt. Don't force it
     
  22. martial_tehee

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    Are u?

    It`s a classic feminist strawwoman.
     
  23. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    1. You sound like a colossal dickbag.

    2. USE THE GODDAMN APOSTROPHE KEY :mad::mad::mad:

    The key with the apostrophe (') is directly to the left of the Enter key. It has a quotation mark (") on the upper half and the apostrophe key on the bottom.

    The apostrophe IS NOT the key to the left of the number 1 key that has the tilde (~) above it. You're using the grave accent (`) or "backtick" key.
     
  24. martial_tehee

    martial_tehee New Member

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    And you sound like a ridiculous vagwad. I`ll use whatever key I want.
     
  25. Toxica

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    He finally gets the answer he was looking for after 7 and 1/2 years.




    :h5:
     

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