An old friend that used to have the hots for me came back into my life around the middle of October and things were great. We talked often and hung out as much as we could. Things got hot and heavy early on with sex but I didn't think much of it as I knew the girl was very sexual. Well things progress rather how you would expect we got closer and she mentions one day how she was falling for me. She did put up a few red flags of Metallic's she only broke up with her ex about a month to two months before we started seeing each other but it was casual so I didn't have much problem with it. She told me right out that she didn't want to be with him but was just sad that he wouldn't be friends with her. The holiday's come around and she was a little sketchy about having me at her parents for Thanksgiving but then she realized it wasn't such a big deal and invited me to it. We also did Christmas and New Year's Eve (her birthday) together too. We got along very well then all of a sudden last week at dinner together she mentions that she isn't as in love with me as she would have normally expected. Now this is only 3 months into the relationship i figured that was totally normal. I realize now that she was warning me that the "honeymoon" period was over for our relationship. This I didn't think was a big deal because all relationships have them and its what you do after that makes the difference. So we talked about us and what she wanted from me and she basically said she doesn't know. She knows that she doesn't want a boyfriend right now and I'm ok with that because I do have feelings for her and I wouldn't mind waiting. Originally she said she wanted to just be friends with benefits but it became more than that. She now says that thats what she wants to be again and see what the future brings but she doesn't want me to think we have a future because she doesn't know. She also said that if i need a relationship now to find it in someone else but that she also doesn't want me to leave. She admitted to wanting to have her cake and eat it too. She also said that I was the unattainable guy for her and that now that she has me she doesn't know if she wants me still or not. My issue is I don't know what to do. I don't think seeing what the future brings is unreasonable but with so many red flags going on. I'm worried about getting used until she can find someone else. Part of me wants to stick it out and see what happens. The other part of me wants to end it. I also have friends that say stick with it and others that say get out. I'm just looking for any sort of advice or insight on what she is thinking. Do we have a chance at working this out or should I move on.