I figure the best way to do this is to just jump right in. I'm in the middle of an affair. Does anyone have any experience with this? Has anyone been through one (on either side)? I don't know that I want to offer up anymore details to my situation until I can see how y'all respond. The basic gist is that there is "someone else". And that "someone else" is also married. We're both married to other people in seperate states. Wow...it's weird just to type that alone. Ok, so it's out there now. I'm just looking for a rational and reasonable type discussion if anyone out there can help me on the subject. Thanks.