My GF and I have together for over a year, we see each other daily and are pretty serious. We do not live together. We also don't really hang out with other people, I'm not the party type and she's over that phase.. I mean there's a few couples we'll go out with sometimes but neither one of us ever really go out with friends.. Well, I was working late tonight and she mentioned that a guy friend from HS whom I've met wanted her to come hang out with him and a few other friends this evening. Naturally my tone of voice changed and she picked up on it and asked what was wrong so I told her that I just don't think it's right for someone (male or female) who's in a serious relationship to be hanging out with someone of the opposite sex. So she went into all that "don't you trust me" BS and "you make me feel bad for having friends". Which isn't true. I mean yeah I don't want her hanging out with other guys but I don't mind at all if she wanted to go out with females. And then she says "but you know him".. I don't know him, I've met him once or twice and I'm supposed to believe that he respects me enough not to try something with my GF? I think not. There's only one guy I'd trust with my GF and that's my best friend. (who is also her friend) What do ya'll think? Guys, would you be upset if your GF wanted to go out with some guy friends? And girls, wouldn't it upset you if your BF went out with some women? She says it wouldn't bother her but I think she just sai that because she knows it would never happen cause I don't talk to any other girls but she has a million and a half guy friends. And I've already explained to her that alot of these guys just want to have sex with her, they don't really care about her, they just see a nice body and pretty face, and they especially don't care that she has a BF. I know this cause 1. I'm a guy and 2. I've heard about several of these "guy friends" who have mentioned to a female friend of hers about how they "want a piece of ass". It just pissed me off that she would even consider going out with some guy. please don't flame me, I'm a nice guy and don't tell her what to do..