There is this one chick my mom knows who is my age almost 24. She has a daughter who is like 3, and my mom introduced me to her. I thought she was a nice girl, nothing to knock socks off so i took her out on one date. I find out she has a kid and that hit me hard. Im still in school and meeting alot of people around and just dont want to settle down. When we went out all she really did was talk about the kid and i got a vibe that she was looking for somone serious and be committed and that is not the stage im at. My mom and neighbor keep bugging the SHIT out of me. I finally called her just to make my mom shut the hell up, cause she kept saying call her call her. I kept saying i dont like the kid idea, and then she thinks im selfish and mean and everything for this. What are your guys takes on this forever on going deal? I actuially setup a date with her tonight, but im going to cancel. The only reason i did it cause my mom wouldnt shut up but i dont give a damn anymore. Having kids of my own one day will be enough, i just figure if you get involved with someone the kid will be in the picture somehow and things will "revolve" around the kid.