hi OT I have somewhat of a problem. I cannot find a girl who is seriously interested in me or even to "hook up", I think its cause I am too nice... - I always compliment - I never am aggressive, sometimes I think I'm timid. - I have great manners i have a lot of girl-friends, but no girlfriend. i am not trying to be anyone else, this is just how I act. do most girls enjoy the "rough" type?